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if somebody say...i will take care of you....??? or i will always take care of you???

Pl guys what is that mean?????? that is very important to me to know it...
What the one person who is taking care of you should do to let you know,that is really taking care?????

Kinda a strange question....

Well in my mind when you're in a relationship..you should take care of each other...which means always being there for one another especially when the other person is n need....That means physically and emotionally and verbally via communication....Love...respect and support for one another I think are keys to a healthy relationship!!!!!!!!!!

Is that enough to say it,like...I care about you???
or we need to proof it maybe???? but if we need to proof it,how to do it then?????

That's nice,thank you honey....i am getting there
Can you tel me how to do it when one of us is far away????

No...actions and words have to match in order for them to be so...I care about you means...to show you care about someone by putting all the thngs I said in my other post into action!!!!!!!!


Communicating....supporting....and loving with action....

I never depend on another person to take care of all my needs. Putting all my eggs in one basket, and expecting another person to carry it, that's just giving too much control for my well-being to someone else.

Communication daily...letting the other one into your life through communication....phone calls...e-mails...messenger....sending cards or things to let each other know you are thinking of each other....caring about what each other thinks and discussing problems until there is a compromise and each is happy with the outcome...Making sure the other one knows you're there when they need you...and being there when they do....even if it's just a phone call or some form of commuication to talk!!!!!!!!!


Those are just some ways....Getting creative can always be fun too!!!!!!!!!!






In any longdistance relationship....daily or as often as possible communication is the key and being honest about how you feel and what's going on with you is the other!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with Shelley...well said!!

im scared

everyday seems alot to me
im so used to being alone
its hard to imagine receiving or being required to 'show up' for another adult every day...





<<<doomed to be a spinster

I concur

I agree as well. We can't depend our lives or happiness on somebody else to make us entirely happy. It is just a set up for failure. I will say that caring for another in emotional times is a huge plus. Or if my other half wants to do the shopping cause I am too lazy...ha ha jk.

i just hate the lights in the grocery store....

hi SF

I hate grocery stores in general. Hey there MF. You wanna be my sugardaddy? jk

how flattering
i exude the illusion of having money AND being a guy?


xlnt
thanks
im really understanding now
why im not gettin date offers








from men

actually there is one CS member who sends out the cry
whenever present that im really a man pretending to be a woman










((like a give a hoot of straners' opinions of me-that would be silly
not mindfful-im mindffulot sillyfull *get it? SF? sillyfull*))


aaaah
i kill me

Lola is in amnesia

Oh your brain is squirming like a toad in a good way....

where is the ice cream

a babys arm holding an apple

Can you hear the hum also?

What a benefit for unfit minds!!