Posted: Jul 22, 2008, 11:02 AM CST
Emanuellla wrote:of course COMMUNICATION is one of the most important ingredients...never doubt abt that:)
as regards real life and life in the forums.....i don't know what to say about it! i am quite confused.....all i know is on the forums people are too nervous, they take almost anything as an offence , they are being rude sometimes (maybe coz they are having a bad day? ) BUT what bothers me more is i CARE about all these people, even if i don't agree with their behaviour sometimes....
let's take the last example:) The trublu girl (hope she won't read what i am going to write in here hahaha)...she offended 2 or 3 guys that i value a lot but in the same time i DO like her ( don't ask me why,i just like her though i haven't even read her threads coz they seemed to me soo long she would be great if she concentrated her msg in a shorter amount of lines ) and i have no idea what attitude to take I don't want to be taken as a traitor, nor as a favorite who is quickly hiding when the battle starts hahaha
i wish so much we all could get along somehow these forums teach me the chaos is everywhere, here or in real life....the same BS and they also teach me there are great ppl too who make this chaos easy to live in
i realized the same
most people in the forums are looking for confrontation taking everything negative
and i am glad they do it (no, i am not crazy)
it make things easier for me
the few that are interested in building bridges of comunications are easier to find
even we dont see the othjer face, those that are interested in comunication instead of yelling their discrapnacy will state their own view point and their reazons they show they can have a diferent view point, they show althuoght they have a diferent view point they also respect the others
at the same time if they do not undertand something they will ask for an explanations (whether in the forums or by personal mail)
i am glad i have already meet some of those few, and you are one of those
you are one in a kind