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he was never married when he was married for more than 10 years.

Do you think he forgot it? I mean, how can you neglected that even if you regret afterwards? Moreover, he is separated now and not divorced yet...one more reason to not forget.
I suggest this person has issues...
Btw, he has "never married" on his profile...

Anyone else suffering from amnesia?

My ex did the same...when I met him he suddenly produced a wife from five years before but was suddenly separated...and six years younger
one lie lead to a whole snake pit of others to cover the previous until it became such a myriad of confusion...
Well he is still on a dating site..unmarried...single..an obvious liar and hasn't aged a day after another two years...lol.

yeah, that's a sad Lol sweetie...
and he is so respectful and sweet...

reasons to lie?

I have heard of that illness before. It's similar to "Man-Flu" and "Malemapause" only it's called "Selective-Male-conveniently-forget-that-I-have-a-wife!"

oh Zella, i have to follow your track for a good day

I'm cracked up now. Time I before all the men charge in here and accuse me of malebashing (as if)

do we have to teach them how to be truth to small things?
i mean, forgive him for what? There is nothing to do with us but with him dealing with reality. Of course i forgive him for being or have been married but hey, that's not the issue here. The issue is much more complicated darling boy

Being married before does not make someone weak or a loser but finding a reason to lie about it makes someone a loser...
I can understand in extreme cases if there was abuse or similar but why be dishonest to start..it is far easier to be upfront and attract people becasue of your integrity and honesty rather than trying to keep up appearances of a false image that you portray...

Trust is a key element in building any form of intimacy so why jeapodise it to start with unless there are other intentions..

true, unless there are other intensions right from the start.
have been married can be a bonus as the person should be well experienced, therefore trained in dealing with problems maybe.Having had a long term relationship is a plus to me because i assume the person is capable of being in a relationship. So, be proud of having been married for long! Sorry it ended, but you can't just neglect that part of your life!

having been*

Should just send the dog a flea collar!

There are a few women here in their 30-40's that also say.. "never married and no kids"
I had no clue there were so many virgins in this world!

good to see you gumby


why do i think that in case of women is fear of rejection but not in case of men...

Come on chris, don't play the double standard game. whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

A lie is a lie. Makes no difference if ya are a guy or a gal.
Cheating is cheating.

Besides, I am a virgin!
Just ask any of my kids.. they will tell ya

and I am the one of the those virgins...Lol

i'd have thought that someone coming on here telling everyone they'd just come out of a 10 year marriage would be a POSITIVE if looking for a long term relationship. surely this would give the impression that he wasn't afraid of committment and was pretty reliable? i don't think i'd mind that on my cv at all so god knows why he'd lie about it - never mind FORGET about it

God.... I mean one of those virgins......

I think its a sickness. Men and women both do it. Why, I don't know. Maybe they are truly bored in their lives and looking for excitement. Its a con and for a single person its very hurtful. Their motives for pulling you into it? I think they actually like you but like I said its the hidden agenda they have that hurts.

V.