Well, mine in its entirety, isn't there. Yes, I prefer a man reasonably confident, but not overly so. If he has an ego the size of a planet, I'm afraid its a non-starter for me, BIG TIME!!
And no, the conventionally considered "good looking/handsome" isn't that important to me, the overall attractiveness is soooooo much better.
I have to have a man with some iintellect, those with the mental agility of a bread basket simply won't... and DON'T appeal, sorry!! And, yes, they are sooooo easy to spot (however clever they THINK they are!!). He definitely has to (and not just think he has or appears to) have brains....
Absolutely, without doubt..... a sense of humour. It doesn't even need to be particularly MY sense of humour. I would find the difference refreshing, but it has to be there.... definitely!!
A kind heart..... if he is respectful, loves animals and is relatively considerate, he's a darling in my book.
So.....
1. Intellect
2. Sense of humour
3. Kind heart
You wouldn't think it was much to ask, would ya??!!

Bloody hell.... do ya think I might be attracted to gay men??!!