Proposals

gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria

Posted: May 9, 2008, 1:50 PM CST

cristina wrote:

I'd tell him somebody else proposed me and then see what happens

That will be a vain effort..

He won't purpose you any way!!!

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: May 9, 2008, 1:50 PM CST

cristina wrote:

I'd tell him somebody else proposed me and then see what happens

let him sweat, good idea

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StressFree
Kalmar, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:01 PM CST

I think the odds of any woman asking a man to marry her are pretty low...really low.
Would I mind, not really. However, I do tell my girlfriends that I really don't believe in marriage, but I am open to it if it feels right.

I just don't like the concept of it in terms of confirming the personal union between individuals. Marriage is an institution in which intimate relationships are sanctioned with governmental, social, or religious recognition. I just hate the civil processes of it and the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution.... in accordance with marriage laws of the land. It's funny how it is common for the man to propose, but when it comes to divorce, it's a free for all.

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:06 PM CST

So far, 2 out of 3 men are not getting all mushy and romantic over the idea of proposals and marriage--I sense another thread in the making

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:06 PM CST

For the woman to do the proposing, it seems like she's desperate and begging......

If the man hasn't asked her to marry him, maybe it's because he doesn't respect her?

It seems to me, that a lot of men complain about clingy needy women. And for a woman to propose marriage, would make her look very clingy and needy

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:09 PM CST

hey look-
if you really want a man to be your husband, get pregnant, DUH! It works in the movies, right?

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Rickster
New York, New York USA

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:13 PM CST

gangel wrote:

Oh,no, I'd never propose..

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StressFree
Kalmar, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:14 PM CST

princess49503 wrote:

For the woman to do the proposing, it seems like she's desperate and begging......

If the man hasn't asked her to marry him, maybe it's because he doesn't respect her?

It seems to me, that a lot of men complain about clingy needy women. And for a woman to propose marriage, would make her look very clingy and needy

I disagree

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ladyheart
wasaga beach Canada

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:23 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

I think the odds of any woman asking a man to marry her are pretty low...really low.
Would I mind, not really. However, I do tell my girlfriends that I really don't believe in marriage, but I am open to it if it feels right.

I just don't like the concept of it in terms of confirming the personal union between individuals. Marriage is an institution in which intimate relationships are sanctioned with governmental, social, or religious recognition. I just hate the civil processes of it and the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution.... in accordance with marriage laws of the land. It's funny how it is common for the man to propose, but when it comes to divorce, it's a free for all.

well said

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ladyheart
wasaga beach Canada

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:25 PM CST

princess49503 wrote:

For the woman to do the proposing, it seems like she's desperate and begging......

If the man hasn't asked her to marry him, maybe it's because he doesn't respect her?

It seems to me, that a lot of men complain about clingy needy women. And for a woman to propose marriage, would make her look very clingy and needy

does the man not look clingy and needy if he asks to marry?

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:26 PM CST

princess49503 wrote:

hey look-
if you really want a man to be your husband, get pregnant, DUH! It works in the movies, right?

Movies maybe.....but if the guy is smart, he makes sure the lady DOES NOT......

get pregnant I mean....

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:26 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

Why not, if you don't mind my asking...?

Me too, I would never propose... Its just something that I think a man should do, probably I am a traditionalist at heart.

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dcj22
Manchester, Tennessee USA

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:27 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

So far, 2 out of 3 men are not getting all mushy and romantic over the idea of proposals and marriage--I sense another thread in the making

GO GIRL!!!

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ladyheart
wasaga beach Canada

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:27 PM CST

princess49503 wrote:

hey look-
if you really want a man to be your husband, get pregnant, DUH! It works in the movies, right?

are all girls in michigan that conniving?

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:28 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

Movies maybe.....but if the guy is smart, he makes sure the lady DOES NOT......

get pregnant I mean....

Hello there comrade, sea is too rough for a ferry crossing today!!!

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:28 PM CST

dcj22 wrote:

GO GIRL!!!

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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:29 PM CST

What Ricky?

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ladyheart
wasaga beach Canada

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:29 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

I disagree

i also disagree

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:30 PM CST

princess49503 wrote:

hey look-
if you really want a man to be your husband, get pregnant, DUH! It works in the movies, right?

Knew someone who did that, then wondered why the maariage didn't work, and he never trusted her. dumb or what ???

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 2:30 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

Hello there comrade, sea is too rough for a ferry crossing today!!!

Heya.....

Dunno....don't bother with the motherland unless absolutely necessary for me to come over there.......MUCH prefer this end of the channel....

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