Why man couldn't say the truth?

heinzketchup
Padova, Bundesland Germany

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:17 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

At least you admit there is a lot of ass++++++++ around. Why do men never say what they mean??? Its a mystery to me!!!

Yes, men can do that, but women don´t want to hear the truth in many cases

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:19 PM CST

Zellarrone1 wrote:

It's known as "male-denail" or even "male denial"

good one.

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:20 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

At least you admit there is a lot of ass++++++++ around. Why do men never say what they mean??? Its a mystery to me!!!

Could also be a matter of differnet perception to the language....

Happened to me before....I say things in a way to mean white, and somehow, they are percieved by the other party as meaning black, or if not grey.

There is a huge gap in the manner that male and female percieve things.....particularly emotional issues....

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:21 PM CST

heinzketchup wrote:

Yes, men can do that, but women don´t want to hear the truth in many cases

We don't ha!! I would much rather hear the truth .. no matter how bad.JMO

Maybe I am just too honest

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:21 PM CST

heinzketchup wrote:

Yes, men can do that, but women don´t want to hear the truth in many cases

Bingo.....

Aaaaaah, at last, another male....was feeling a bit outnumbered around here....

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:24 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

Hi Morgan...

U know, apart from the jokes and all that.....

I don't lie to anybody, particularly myself, but yes, I think you hit on a soft spot there.....

sometimes, one gets caught in a situation that is a bit tricky, especially were somebody's else emotions are concerned, so u just drag your feet on the issue with the hope that somehow the message gets tru without your having to be the one to say it out loud......

but it's got nothing to do with not having balls......wouldn't be mail without I guess....

I think alot of men have problems dealing with there own emotions, let alone someone else's partly

due conditioning from childhood that it's not macho to show awareness and sensitivty, changing more

in today's society maybe. They genuinely don't know how to cope so ignoring it is easier.

ok i'll leave the balls out if it

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:25 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

We don't ha!! I would much rather hear the truth .. no matter how bad.JMO

Maybe I am just too honest

do you think we say we want to hear it, then try to change it ???? i know i have done that in the past.

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Zellarrone1
Hull, England UK

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:26 PM CST

heinzketchup wrote:

Yes, men can do that, but women don´t want to hear the truth in many cases

That's called "Selective female denail or denial"... Trust me, I have all these official sayings in a big red book

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:27 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

I think alot of men have problems dealing with there own emotions, let alone someone else's partly

due conditioning from childhood that it's not macho to show awareness and sensitivty, changing more

in today's society maybe. They genuinely don't know how to cope so ignoring it is easier.

ok i'll leave the balls out if it

Thank u....

even thou now I realise I spelt it mail not male.....u got the point...

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:29 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

Thank u....

even thou now I realise I spelt it mail not male.....u got the point...

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:29 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

We don't ha!! I would much rather hear the truth .. no matter how bad.JMO

Maybe I am just too honest

But then that when we get called bastards....

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heinzketchup
Padova, Bundesland Germany

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:30 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

Bingo.....Aaaaaah, at last, another male....was feeling a bit outnumbered around here....

Yep.
Sometimes women ask things ....and we poor men have no chance to give the right (or true) answer

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:30 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

But then that when we get called bastards....

true ...... so actually you

can't win

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:31 PM CST

heinzketchup wrote:

Yep.
Sometimes women ask things ....and we poor men have no chance to give the right (or true) answer

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:32 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

I think alot of men have problems dealing with there own emotions, let alone someone else's partly

due conditioning from childhood that it's not macho to show awareness and sensitivty, changing more

in today's society maybe. They genuinely don't know how to cope so ignoring it is easier.

ok i'll leave the balls out if it

I agree with you that men tend not to show their emotions/feelings. At least most of them.

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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:33 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

But then that when we get called bastards....

Yes and you just have to take it, like a man....

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:37 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

I agree with you that men tend not to show their emotions/feelings. At least most of them.

Yes but expand the wording a bit further....

men do not show thier emotions/feelings in the manner women expect them to.....

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:38 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

Yes and you just have to take it, like a man....

But....

the way men do it is to let the women stomp and huff and just ignore it all.....

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:39 PM CST

Lillym wrote:

I agree with you that men tend not to show their emotions/feelings. At least most of them.

I respect a man that is able to do so, i think that shows a real strength of character, far more attractive than a man that feels he has something to prove all the time,

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: May 9, 2008, 3:41 PM CST

kurzita wrote:

But....

the way men do it is to let the women stomp and huff and just ignore it all.....

i

never stomp and huff !!!

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