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Why man couldn't say the truth?

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mary20cherry
marshfield, Wisconsin USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 4:28 PM CST
because most men dont think that they sould tell women anything that we most be dumb. or around they friends n famliy thye have to act diff than when its just they girl n them
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sebezh
Jakarta Indonesia
Posted: May 9, 2008, 4:35 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
To answer your question straight up....he just told you what you wanted/needed to hear so he can hold on to you. The reasons can vary and can be multiple.

He may have broke his promises because he did not want to do something or be something that you may have expected from him. When he was confronted of this by you, he more than likely smooth talked you and made more promises. You of course believed him and gave him another chance. And so the process goes around in circles to either you leave him or if he actually changes his ways and his wishes that align with yours.
Sounds like you two were not on the same page.


thanks stressfree. But I guess you're right. we're not on the same page..
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sebezh
Jakarta Indonesia
Posted: May 9, 2008, 4:38 PM CST
mary20cherry wrote:
because most men dont think that they sould tell women anything that we most be dumb. or around they friends n famliy thye have to act diff than when its just they girl n them


hello mary... hm... maybe I don't really know him yet, maybe that make it more sucks.sigh
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opalbeauty
Worcester County, Massachusetts USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 5:42 PM CST
sebezh wrote:
hello mary... hm... maybe I don't really know him yet, maybe that make it more sucks.


I think love to some people equals being popular and having sex appeal. Not just men but people love to think they are wanted and desired. Other people are more like objects to them. I like this quote..."Love is the extremely difficult realization that something outside ourselves is real." When they learn that then they will know how to show respect for others.
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GypsyGirl_1963
Anaheim, California USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 5:51 PM CST
morganlee wrote:
Not sure i can give opinion ,without knowing more, but there are some good guy's out there

somewhere . Hi and welcome to CS


If you find them can you send them my way hug
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 6:00 PM CST
opalbeauty wrote:
I think love to some people equals being popular and having sex appeal. Not just men but people love to think they are wanted and desired. Other people are more like objects to them. I like this quote..."Love is the extremely difficult realization that something outside ourselves is real." When they learn that then they will know how to show respect for others.


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up Great and true observation opalbeauty.....
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 4:14 AM CST
opalbeauty wrote:
I think love to some people equals being popular and having sex appeal. Not just men but people love to think they are wanted and desired. Other people are more like objects to them. I like this quote..."Love is the extremely difficult realization that something outside ourselves is real." When they learn that then they will know how to show respect for others.


It's always good to hear youhug

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 4:14 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
To answer your question straight up....he just told you what you wanted/needed to hear so he can hold on to you. The reasons can vary and can be multiple.

He may have broke his promises because he did not want to do something or be something that you may have expected from him. When he was confronted of this by you, he more than likely smooth talked you and made more promises. You of course believed him and gave him another chance. And so the process goes around in circles to either you leave him or if he actually changes his ways and his wishes that align with yours.
Sounds like you two were not on the same page.


raw and truecrying
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tinymac
hilversum, Flevoland Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 5:05 AM CST
cristina wrote:
Cause he is a Hero when he does that. Pleasure in hurting, pleasure in feeling desired.

Normally, those who do that, when they are not sleeping they are chatting to thousands of us. They love it!

Be a princess girl, protect yourself!


great answer and very true i think!1

I guess its called ego!!

rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 5:14 AM CST
[quote=tinymac]great answer and very true i think!1

I guess its called ego!![/quote

yeah, ego, you right neighborwink laugh

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tinymac
hilversum, Flevoland Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 5:16 AM CST
[quote=cristina]
tinymac wrote:
great answer and very true i think!1

I guess its called ego!![/quote

yeah, ego, you right neighbor


rolling on the floor laughing

YEs - we are naighbours arnt we?

I still need to pay a visit to Groningem - any thing on there this weekend?
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Groningen matchmaking
cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 5:21 AM CST
[quote=tinymac]
cristina wrote:




YEs - we are naighbours arnt we?

I still need to pay a visit to Groningem - any thing on there this weekend?


Lots of kermis around! I don't recognise the people out there. One month ago Groningen was peaceful and calmrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I'm not even enjoying the weather properly, i just can't, if you know what i mean. So, Amsterdam is a better idea for August...really!wink

cheers
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tinymac
hilversum, Flevoland Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 5:39 AM CST
[quote=cristina]
tinymac wrote:


Lots of kermis around! I don't recognise the people out there. One month ago Groningen was peaceful and calm

I'm not even enjoying the weather properly, i just can't, if you know what i mean. So, Amsterdam is a better idea for August...really!


Yeah - its very hot and humid here, thats for sure.

a bit of a breeze would help

and your right about the half-lifes who appear from nowhere when the kermis is on - Hilversum was simply chaos this last couple of weeks

what did u do for queens day?

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 10, 2008, 6:06 AM CST
[quote=tinymac]
cristina wrote:


Yeah - its very hot and humid here, thats for sure.

a bit of a breeze would help

and your right about the half-lifes who appear from nowhere when the kermis is on - Hilversum was simply chaos this last couple of weeks

what did u do for queens day?


Queens day? what i was suppose to!conversing

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