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what about Mama

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 7:03 AM CST
mindfful wrote:
my mom said i was a slut when i was 4??

many years til i understood the impact of that

she said i was unloveable and no one would ever love me
that bit of misinformation polluted the truth and my beliefs for a long time...
oh well



turns out when i was 13 she was found to be schizophrenic-
i try to take that into consideration


Aaww MF comfort I'm sure that had a lot to do with it.

My mum said some shitty things to me (and the rest of us) once she became a full on alky.. but we all tried not to take it to heart.. because we knew she wasn't firing on all cylinders any more.

I know that's easier said than done.. but it's worth keeping in mind. teddy bear
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livinglarge
kildare, Kildare Ireland
Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 7:16 AM CST
Portiea wrote:
I read this on MSN homepage--I think this woman, these people are sick..the world is overpopulated as it is...if these people love children so much, they ought to adopt those who have no parents or foster those who need good ones--18 kids, this is just so completely selfish.

Really ? Well I think it is their business, I am not touchy because I come from a large family myself, no , its because I believe it is a presonal choice and completely up tp the individuals involved!! I dont sit in judgement on others ,or at least I try not 2.
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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 3:59 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
What are the greatest words from your mother? What did she say to you that made you what you are now??
She said "I Love You" hug


I love you too, mom! teddy bear
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:05 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
What are the greatest words from your mother? What did she say to you that made you what you are now??


she always taught me to protect and defend those who are weaker than me and help those who are in need of it. And this thing made me what i am now...Luvv u mumteddy bear teddy bear
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Shadow_lover
West Palm, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:06 AM CST
Called me a son of a bich a lot rolling on the floor laughing
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:07 AM CST
Shadow_lover wrote:
Called me a son of a bich a lot


did u give her reason for that?laugh laugh hole
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Shadow_lover
West Palm, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:08 AM CST
LOL always but thats not the point grin
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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:10 AM CST
Emanuellla wrote:
she always taught me to protect and defend those who are weaker than me and help those who are in need of it. And this thing made me what i am now...Luvv u mum
Yeah! applause Someone else who loves their momma!!!! teddy bear
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Shadow_lover
West Palm, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:12 AM CST
Dont_Look_Now wrote:
Yeah! Someone else who loves their momma!!!!



hey hey I love my mama
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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:17 AM CST
Shadow_lover wrote:
hey hey I love my mama
Ok, yeah for you too!!!! teddy bear Gotta love momma! bouquet of flowers
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:20 AM CST
Dont_Look_Now wrote:
Yeah! Someone else who loves their momma!!!!



she is the bestshamrock when i am with her, i don't need anything else...well, almost anything elselaugh laugh giggle wave hug
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Shadow_lover
West Palm, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:22 AM CST
Night all teddy bear
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:23 AM CST
Shadow_lover wrote:
Night all


nightyangel
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aiyana
Wien, Vienna Austria
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:25 AM CST
In response to:
I read this on MSN homepage--I think this woman, these people are sick..the world is overpopulated as it is...if these people love children so much, they ought to adopt those who have no parents or foster those who need good ones--18 kids, this is just so completely selfish.


livinglarge wrote:
Really ? Well I think it is their business, I am not touchy because I come from a large family myself, no , its because I believe it is a presonal choice and completely up tp the individuals involved!! I dont sit in judgement on others ,or at least I try not 2.


Orphan Statistics
Every 15 SECONDS, another child becomes an AIDS orphan in Africa1
Every DAY 5,760 more children become orphans
Every YEAR 2,102,400 more children become orphans (in Africa alone)
143,000,0002 Orphans in the world today spend an average of 10 years3 in an orphanage or foster home
Approximately 250,000 children are adopted annually, but…
Every YEAR 14,050,000 children still grow up as orphans and AGE OUT4 of the system
Every DAY 38,493 children AGE OUT
Every 2.2 SECONDS, another orphan child AGES OUT with no family to belong to and no place to call home
In Ukraine and Russia 10% -15% of children who age out of an orphanage commit suicide before age 18.
60% of the girls are lured into prostitution. 70% of the boys become hardened criminals.5
Many of these children accept job offers that ultimately result in their being sold as slaves. Millions of girls
are sex slaves today, simply because they were unfortunate enough to grow up as orphans.
Reliable statistics are difficult to find, even the sources often list only estimates, and street children are
rarely included. But even if these figures are exaggerated by double, it is still an unacceptable tragedy that
over a Million children would still become orphans every year, and every year 7 Million children would still
grow to adulthood as orphans with no one to belong to and no place to call home. They are totally
vulnerable and easily fall prey to predators and slave recruiters.
The disastrous outcomes of most children who age out of institutional care is evidence that these
children don’t know the meaning of love, and are unable to comprehend God’s love. Receiving Jesus Christ
makes no sense and too many of them will never have a chance to become adopted children of God.
The Christian Response
The Christian solution for this tragedy is to give orphan children the good news they really long to hear:
The Gospel of Adoption

The good news that orphan children need to hear is not only the fact that they will be adopted by a
loving family, but also the good news that Jesus Christ died on the cross to make it possible for them to
become adopted children of God. Our adoption by God is the ultimate expression of His love, and was the
ultimate purpose of Jesus’ life on earth and death on the cross. This is truly the Gospel of Adoption, and it is
written in Galatians 4:4-5 and John 1:12
If orphan children never experience a family’s love, how can we expect them to comprehend God’s love?
Adoption by a Christian family is the best way for orphan children to become adopted children of God. Not
all are called to adopt, but anyone can love and minister to orphan children by helping other families adopt.
1. http://www.habitatforhumanity.org.uk/current_appeal.htm
2. According to figures from the United Nations. These statistics include children in the American Foster Care system
3. This is an estimate. Infants may stay as long as 18 years while children who become orphans at an older age stay a shorter time.
4. To AGE OUT means to grow to the age where a child is forced to leave the orphanage or foster home with no place to call home.
5. http://www.hopefororphansoftheworld.org/default.aspx?id=30
Courtesy of the Home For Good Foundation www.hfgf.org
Orphan Statisticshttp://www.hfgf.org/statistics.pdf
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:27 AM CST
hmmm hmmm detective female
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:28 AM CST

that was a quick visit Portiea
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GentleFire12
West Jerusalem, Iowa USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:11 AM CST
Portiea wrote:
Well, I'm glad for those who had wonderful parents, but I am also glad to know I'm not alone in having had some very disappointing ones--to me, mothers' day and father's day are something I try to ignore--I feel sad, more so than bitter--sad that things weren't different, and really sad for my folks who are dead now and never did get to know the real me or value the person I was and have become--their loss.


I have been on here a short time. I will jump in here. First ,I am one of those people that has a small picture, cause that is all I had on hand, and I should have put pink paper behind itcheering
Now for the reason I write. Would anyone like to be adopted.? I have 12 children, not bragging , but, love them all and they all Love me. I gave up my all for them, I taught them to work, and play. In that order. I do not believe in spanking as I don't want the same. My youngest son told me this week that I am the reason he is going on the help people on earth.(is a Cna and training to be a firefighter/paramedic) I helped mom raise her twelve, I had my brothers four for 7 years, and have been a single parent mom for almost 20 years to protect my children. I worked in the schools with special needs kids for five years.Kids all grown now.They have been my life, no brag, just fact. I can tell you why you were born, and it really has nothing to do with your mom and dad. They are just the means to an end, so look past them to what you need to do with you. I am impressed with you young kids and the way you think about "STUFF" that happens to you in your life. You take the positive route and, as I call it look for the golden nugget in everything, most of the time. That is enough for now, you all have a great day, and I will look forward to reading what you have to say. In Christ, Gentlefire12smitten
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:36 AM CST
Both my parents ROCK!thumbs up
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:44 AM CST
thewall2 wrote:
Both my parents ROCK!



.......AND SURE i've had my issues with them in the past,but you know what,if I WERE IN TROUBLE and said,''Mom,I NEED YOU TO COME HERE AND DIE FOR ME TONIGHT.''


......My mom would present herself.

You understand?

I love MOMS!applause
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:53 AM CST
.....and single MOMS are good too.grin
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