what would you do if someone asks you to marry...

SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 7:55 PM CST

Been intouch with this Lady for a few years now, no hugs or kisses ever and just last night she lets me have it and says why don't you let me be your Fiance', no synthetic mood persuasion involved I was not shocked but actually like the idea, I'm 41 but still look younger she is 29?

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:16 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

Been intouch with this Lady for a few years now, no hugs or kisses ever and just last night she lets me have it and says why don't you let me be your Fiance', no synthetic mood persuasion involved I was not shocked but actually like the idea, I'm 41 but still look younger she is 29?

Hmmm.. wouldn't it be a bit or a boring marriage then? ... sounds more like one of convenience

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:17 PM CST

a bit OF*

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:19 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

Been intouch with this Lady for a few years now, no hugs or kisses ever and just last night she lets me have it and says why don't you let me be your Fiance', no synthetic mood persuasion involved I was not shocked but actually like the idea, I'm 41 but still look younger she is 29?

hmm dont sound like the real thing...Why Marry someone that you havent even hugged or kissed...Sounds like something is up!!!!!

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SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:19 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Hmmm.. wouldn't it be a bit or a boring marriage then? ... sounds more like one of convenience

is not marriage a convience thing anyhoo, specially with the trouser thing inview

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:20 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

is not marriage a convience thing anyhoo, specially with the trouser thing inview

Pah! you can get that anywhere.. you don't need to be married.

hahah In fact.. SOME will tell you.. you WONT get it when you are married.. hahah

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SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:21 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

hmm dont sound like the real thing...Why Marry someone that you havent even hugged or kissed...Sounds like something is up!!!!!

I have no short guys or her and both of us are thinking of kids

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:21 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Pah! you can get that anywhere.. you don't need to be married.

hahah In fact.. SOME will tell you.. you WONT get it when you are married.. hahah

OH Claire dont tell me that

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:22 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

I have no short guys or her and both of us are thinking of kids

Hmm noooo.. I still think thats marrying for all the wrong reasons.

Donnn't doooo

Eeeeeeeeet

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:22 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

I have no short guys or her and both of us are thinking of kids

You are thinking of having kids...But there is nothing said of anything about Love...Kids deserve Parents who love each other JMO

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:22 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

OH Claire dont tell me that

haha I said

SOME

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:23 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

is not marriage a convience thing anyhoo, specially with the trouser thing inview

I might consider it if this person were someone I felt I could/would come to love, both as a partner and lover. I would consider thinking about it, that is, talking about it, spending more time together, seeing where things went.....I wouldn't reject the idea right off the bat. Who knows where love comes from...

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:23 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

haha I said

SOME

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ooby_dooby
Ashland, Virginia USA

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:24 PM CST

Maybe what she's really saying is "why don't you get your A$$ in gear and lets get busy"?
Ya know women like sex too.

Did I come on too strong?

Seriously though maybe this is her way of telling you she would like a little physical contact.

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CuspofMagic
space, Mecklenburg-West Pomerania Germany

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:24 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

Been intouch with this Lady for a few years now, no hugs or kisses ever and just last night she lets me have it and says why don't you let me be your Fiance', no synthetic mood persuasion involved I was not shocked but actually like the idea, I'm 41 but still look younger she is 29?

I suppose its a commitment to each other and self in moving together to a closer being

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:24 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

I might consider it if this person were someone I felt I could/would come to love, both as a partner and lover. I would consider thinking about it, that is, talking about it, spending more time together, seeing where things went.....I wouldn't reject the idea right off the bat. Who knows where love comes from...

Ooerr.. I think I would prefer to wait and see if love happened FIRST.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:25 PM CST

CuspofMagic wrote:

I suppose its a commitment to each other and self in moving together to a closer being

haha yeah

Hi Cusp

I think living together should be the step in between.

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SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:27 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

I might consider it if this person were someone I felt I could/would come to love, both as a partner and lover. I would consider thinking about it, that is, talking about it, spending more time together, seeing where things went.....I wouldn't reject the idea right off the bat. Who knows where love comes from...

Well seems Clair has once again threw some dirty trousers

in the batch but he we can adapt to your ways Portea just a bit of a clean up and we are both on track

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:27 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Ooerr.. I think I would prefer to wait and see if love happened FIRST.

Yes, that's sort of what I meant---but also believe love grows and being in love/infatuated/or in lust is what most people have before they get married, whereas, like in an arranged marriage, like can become love, a more enduring love, and sexual attraction for the other grows out of that. I've experienced this, not the arranged marriage, but the other.

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SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada

Posted: May 10, 2008, 8:30 PM CST

ooby_dooby wrote:

Maybe what she's really saying is "why don't you get your A$$ in gear and lets get busy"?
Ya know women like sex too.

Did I come on too strong?

Seriously though maybe this is her way of telling you she would like a little physical contact.

Nawww you were not commng on to strong but coming through in stereo (Digital)

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