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what do you think?




Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: May 11, 2008, 3:41 PM CST
newinsouth wrote:
Forget him. It's the old "maybe if I move and don't see her she'll take the hint" ploy. A man's lips cannot form the words "I'm not interested."


Bet you are right there...good thinking
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 11, 2008, 3:48 PM CST
Portiea wrote:
Bet you are right there...good thinking
YOu know we all can speculate but i think there is more to it then what we are hearing...any relationship has it ups and downs..but just to walk away without really knowing the truth is hard...Some of us are saying move on...leave his ass...but we ourselves are not in her shoes..how would we feel if it was us...BROKEN HEARTED...We all know it will be hard to move on..its easy to just say it..but really to do it..even though she may have to will be hard in itself
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newinsouth
Aiken, South Carolina USA
Posted: May 11, 2008, 3:51 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
YOu know we all can speculate but i think there is more to it then what we are hearing...any relationship has it ups and downs..but just to walk away without really knowing the truth is hard...Some of us are saying move on...leave his ass...but we ourselves are not in her shoes..how would we feel if it was us...BROKEN HEARTED...We all know it will be hard to move on..its easy to just say it..but really to do it..even though she may have to will be hard in itself


This is absolutely true but if it has to be done . . . it has to be done. First time in my life I felt like I was loosing my mind when my friend took a hike. Horrible, horrible, horrible but I did pull through.
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 11, 2008, 3:54 PM CST
newinsouth wrote:
This is absolutely true but if it has to be done . . . it has to be done. First time in my life I felt like I was loosing my mind when my friend took a hike. Horrible, horrible, horrible but I did pull through.
Yes but she doesnt even have the answer..how can one just walk out without at least trying..i would always be wondering why...I would have to really find out the truth b4 leaving as i put some much into it...wave
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newinsouth
Aiken, South Carolina USA
Posted: May 12, 2008, 7:36 AM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Yes but she doesnt even have the answer..how can one just walk out without at least trying..i would always be wondering why...I would have to really find out the truth b4 leaving as i put some much into it...


This goes back to my original answer where I said a man will not say he is not interested. Even directly asking him something will not provide a satisfactory answer. I bet this one would say he just had something to take care of and SHE is the one putting up roadblocks to him accomplishing it.
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: May 12, 2008, 7:38 AM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
YOu know we all can speculate but i think there is more to it then what we are hearing...any relationship has it ups and downs..but just to walk away without really knowing the truth is hard...Some of us are saying move on...leave his ass...but we ourselves are not in her shoes..how would we feel if it was us...BROKEN HEARTED...We all know it will be hard to move on..its easy to just say it..but really to do it..even though she may have to will be hard in itself


I did post earlier that should should first talk it out with him...
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
Posted: May 12, 2008, 7:41 AM CST
morganlee wrote:
I think i would move on, we only get one chance at life and happiness, don't waste it .


for obvious reasons I sure hope this statement of yours wrong.sigh
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 12, 2008, 7:46 AM CST
newinsouth wrote:
This goes back to my original answer where I said a man will not say he is not interested. Even directly asking him something will not provide a satisfactory answer. I bet this one would say he just had something to take care of and SHE is the one putting up roadblocks to him accomplishing it.
I just hope it will all work out for the best
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
Posted: May 12, 2008, 7:46 AM CST
bridger wrote:
I have been with a man for 6years, never lived together but saw each other everyday. Suddenly there is no work in NJ so he goes back to his home town, Long Island. I have not seen him since Aug 07.
He calls noe and then to say Hi . No valentine card no I love you though he said when we were together. any advice, be honest!



if this man was serving overseas and for whatever reason was unable to communicate with you, would you give up on him.

In U.S. there are numerous married couples who have sacrificed being together for economic issues, sometimes its the strength of faith in each other is all a couple has.
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