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u know than pls tell me because i m unmarried and want to know truth

if you know how to live in society,understand the weakness ,
calm,no argue,patient,cooking,know your rights in life and so on
it isof both feelings for some if there is no peace of mind and trust

It can be either...depending on who you're married to!!!!!!!!!!!

no feeling allowed when you are married! That is rule #1. Feel nothing...marriage will last!

Hi ship think i can relate to that

switch back to your coke can account and the answer will come as you are were..as you are....

I think when one or the other or both think in extremes, it is hell.

very true

1. If You do not love him, marriage will be hell
2. If neither of you love eachother, it will truly be a hell
3. If you love him and he is married that is another type of hell
4. If you are both in love with each other and are both unmarried, than it could be heavenly
5. If both of you ger married to someone else, but still love each other, then that will be real hell
6. If you marry each other and are madly in love with each other...welcome to your own Heaven...have fun and keep the noise levels down! %D

The truth is usually somewhere in between. It can be hell when it's not right. It can be heaven but only at certain times, mostly it's what you and your partner make it, and it takes work on both parts.

If you go into marriage expecting a bed of roses, you'll end up with thorns.

j

the following points above are correct ,but how to cope with it

how strong you are in capable of handling difficult situation is the answer for ,llike shipoker55

many of us have encountered this type of situation,i can be one of them,it takes time to remedy the pain and love as life goes on,
surrounded by real friends can be a help to some

once you be a better person,many good things will develop
time will tell
that is why i am on this site to find love like many of us,the purpose is to acheive things after going into a bad experience in life