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yes i did, turned out she was had her water turned off because she hadn't paid the bill. I had to arrange an advance of salary so she could pay it.

that can't be

Oh God

I choose my battles wisely...That being said....Some things just aren't worth saying!!!!!!!!!!!!

seriously, i saw the bill to get the payment authorised, she only worked part time and

they had messed up her benefits so she didn't have any money, i felt sorry for her.

been there done that many times

I missed my gas bill and missed the gas guy. I still took a shower and washed dishes, in cold water. I could be homeless, and I'd still be clean. My dad was a truck driver. I learned how to wash from a sink, as a kid.

My friends father was like that.He didn't know how to say sorry,so when he did wrong he'd leave a box of donuts on the kitchen table the next morning or something.It was his way of saying sorry.

I tend to be brutally honest. I either like you or I don't and I will always say such if asked. I've never been one to beat around the bush.

Oh shit!!

AS FOR DISCLOSURE,
I think it's important to make peace to someone you might have harmed,but to disclose something that might cause further damage to someone who has no awareness they've been wronged,then I don't think it should be disclosed to that person always.

Sometimes we want to get the feeling of guilt off our back,but we can't get rid of our guilt and lay it on the hands of someone who has no AWARENESS FOR a wrong we did.
I THINK IN SOME SITUATIONS it's better to disclose our wrong to someone who understands,yet won't be affected.

Good QUESTION....BUT I think it depends from case to case.

I usually say what i mean unless I don't want to.

I've told Bush i don't like him plenty of times and he is still alive.

Oh yes pleease .. I would love some Brussels sprouts.

I would never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never

say that.

excuse me but those pants
makes your butt look big

good idea u better never say that to smb if u really care abt ur life

hey a woman wants you to be honest
no matter what than if she wants to ask you
if those pants makes her butt look butt
if you said yes won't that be being honest

I did that with three workmates. Each time i pulled them aside first and said it with a smile...and a low voice of course. I did that because i wasn't sure if they had a problem or were just unhygienic. I didn't want to assume. I normally start with " Hey girl, what deodorant do you use?".....

One of them never spoke to me again (middle aged), the other two are kenyans and took it well and even said thanks. One even got back to me with how her new deo was working wonders. We laughed about it.

My male friends are dead honest. Whenever they tell me my face looks 'fat' i normally repond with a "Thanks, that's one croissant off my list!"

I think it's quite ok. for people around you to mention the changes they see in you. Nothing wrong with that and depending on how close you two are, injecting some humorous response would be ok....


Now, if a stranger came up to me and called me 'fat', he would surely have a terribly bad day, when i am done with him.

Have a good day Slim. I'm off to work

Never say "Never"