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Hello,
Yes I have problem with expressing my feelings.
I prefere action than talkingso I almost never say: I love you - it sounds trivial for me.
If I don't like somebody I just avoid meeting and I'm reserved.

I'm the kind of fool who says stuff and then stands my ground waiting for the backlash. I would never do it with the intention of hurting anyone, but do believe in plain speaking and honesty.

Sometimes I couch the "does my as look big in this" with "I liked you better in the other outfit" or something, or lace it with humour, because there are ways of telling the truth and being kind too.

I never avoid saying things though.

are you missing an "s" somewhere in this text, Sweetie? if no, I can't tell what you mean. If yes, I can't tell either cause I gotta see it first

An "s" is the least of what I am missing sometimes..........

How you doin?

i dunno yet it is too early (7:28 AM) to tell


















it is the least of what she is missing.....hmmmmm

Nuts, bolts and screws mostly.............

how do you expect to build a loving relationship if you are unable to express your feelings

There's not much I don't say anymore, it depends on the circumstance of course. I mean at work I'm not gonna tell my boss she's a freakin' idiot, even though she is. Lord knows I'd love to though!

I like being able to tell people that I care about how I feel. And I hope they can take it, if not, it's something they need to work on. I am only responsible for my own feelings. I'm really too nice sometimes, I hate to say anything to hurt someone. But I've lived too many years not letting on when I'm mad to want to hide it anymore. If someone wants to know me, they need to know the bad as well as the good.

Stop

There is a difference to say it all and how to say it. I would like to never need to use useless words; there are lot better ways to hammer a nail into a coffin. But sometimes the need to adjust the language to the receiver of the message is simply needed.

What needs to be said should be said. Straight. Sometimes it hurts. What is difficult is to measure it right; being straight and forward with someone that is not used to it may be harsh, while the next person would react with a simple shrug off the shoulder, knowing where I stand from then on.

I have said Love, Hate and everything in between. Not too many of them do I regret.

To say it by voice or by writing makes a difference as well, your own words will stare you in the face every day written here at CS...

I can't think of exact words or phrases I would never say to someone.

I am an honest and direct person but still think somethings are best left "unsaid" of buried....another side to this is I do think some things "we never say will come back to haunt us" ..

i don't think I have ever said 'I hate you' to anyone ( well not since the playground anyway )- i suppose i never really have felt that way- plus it's one of those 'Big' phrases to me- once you've said it, you can never take it back

Sometimes we say it best by saying nothing at all~

so true ..

And in some of those times .. its nice to know the other person understands the language your silence speaks ...

(don schlitz & paul overstreet/mca music, inc.-don schlitz music, ascap,
And scarlet moon, bmi)

It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don’t say a thing

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
Old mr. webster could never define
What’s being said between your heart and mine

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

Thankyou ..

i admit i didnt read the whole thread


but as for me
i tryyy not to say never or always

i try to remember to make 'i' statements about how i feel when something happens rather than saying you you you

i try to say thank you alot

i never say hornswaggled..?

oops i just said it

Actually, if you hear the song, it's very warm and loving~ Allison Kraus does a good version.

with the song .. i just heard it ...