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A mate of mine informed me that he worked back late last week and the office secretary propositioned him telling him she fancied him and wanted to get him in the sack. Only problem she has only been married for less than a year. He's in a causal non-exclusive relationship but is concerned about the fall out with having an office affair that goes sour, feels abit sorry for her husband, but then is excited by the circumstance. I told him to weigh things up and do what he feels is right. I'm waiting to hear what his decision was.

I'd be interested in the CS community views on this.

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Never cheat. But then, easier said than done.

I'd probably give into lust

Well at lease we know your friend is not Bill Clinton...I think it might come back to bite him is the ass , she's married and she can also turn the table on him with workplace sex abuse. Keep away..

Ask him how he wuld feel if the shoe was on the other foot.

If you know someone is TAKEN, you just don't touch them, no matter how much they might want it.........otherwise you're just as wrong as them for KNOWING she's cheating. Now if you were unaware, that's another story.

NEVER....EVER......GET YOUR MEAT WHERE YOU GET YOUR BREAD.....


No need to thank me.....It's my Pleasure.....

nah its a hard one like.... he should stay clear because u always get caught...... n someone always ends up hurt.
he should also look @ the fact some of his mates in a reationship might not trust him with their partners...just in case he waz ever tempted to try it on!!!!

Never heard it put quite that way. but the message is clear enough and I agree.

surely we all know the tail of adam and eve and how the temptaion can ruine lifes never mind if you have kids lust is somthing we all have and at times it hard to say NO but it isnt about what if i get found out anymore its weather he clean or will he give me clap STD is on the rise and a latest study i read that the increass was men aged 35/50

so the next time you get bent over adesk or in toilet think twice and even if the guys fit down stairs dosent mean he is upstairs lol i use the word men as i ant sexiest just my point of view

comming from abroken home i know the fall out it has and having been married twice i know the speail the bitchess can say lol i missed the trian the bus was late im working over ISNT WORTH IT WAS IS IT 20 MIN BONK FOR WHAT ALIFE TIME OF MISS APPS KIDS ARE FOR LIFE SO IS AIDS V.D WARTS AND MANY OTHERS SO THANKS BUT NO THANKS

Totally wrong!!!!!!!
You're friend would be an amoral douche bag. Tell him to put the shoe on the other foot and kick his ass with it.

he should ask her husband first.

She is married.

Ask him if he wants to go to :

For eternity.

Pssst. Avoid eye contact,from here on out.

You know what?
The more he resists the more she will want him.

"The ONLY problem" ???????????????? I wouldn't consider someone being married being a problem - but the reason to say no.

I had a co-worker pressuring me to play (as he termed it) as his relationship wasn't as "rosy" as it appeared to be - tempting (yes, I admit to that) but in the end I realized that I was worth more than that and that truly he had nothing to offer me. Do I regret saying no? Not in the least.

Tell him to think with his brain rather than his dick and he might find the answer to this question himself.

I say he should cheat....and then live with the consequences!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


The fact that he's even considering it...makes him no better than she is!!!!!!!!!