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She already rand away once before I helped her and she Got caught

She in under age and her parents need to know. If something happened to her, could you live with yourself? That is the question.

Well we talked a god part of the night she wont listen to me and telling her parents which already dont like me wont beleive me she already said if she isnt goin with me that shell take off to indiana So i dont know really

Her 17 and you 19

If you do help her to run away, with her being under age.. if she crosses the state line and you helped... You could be facing a federal charge and time in prison.

Well thats why I asked so I dont make the choice without some input

If you know her parents and trust them and they trust you then you have to tell them her intentions!

shes not too young to go it alone but still, at that age, she obviously has issues somewhere and needs some sort of support and security

How soon will she be 18 ?

What's her reasoning for running away? Is she being abused/neglected or she just doesn't like the rules of home? Does she have mental, emotional or physical issues that she needs to address? Does she not have any friends that she could stay with on a temporary measure? Has she sought out help from a school counselor and community counselor?

You helping her run away is not the answer - you telling her parents may or may not help ....... perhaps some outside professional help is necessary ......... truly its hard to know what may be the best answer when all the facts are not known. You only know what she's telling you - there are always two sides to the story.

Don't get involved other than getting info as to where she is going and
why. Help her to stay home until she is at least 18.

Ok this is the situation Im 19 so her mom thinks i only want one thing in life and I hate that she has that assumption. We do have some feelings for eachother and her Mom I know this for sure ive seen it in person she always puts her down and calls her names in front of me and other friends she says stuff like youll get no where in life your F****** stupid you Whore stuff like that and I dont know why she does that she doesnt have a BF she calls me and talks to me shes lookin for that support emotionally and well we both have strong feelings for one and other so its hard to make a decision when my judgement is clouded by personal feelings

Is her home life that bad?

Be there for her wait till she is 18 then she is free to do as she pleases but at 17 she still must be in school and she needs to finsh

She turns 18 in 2 months and she finished high school last year shes one of the really smart people lol and in a month her mom is goin to make her live with her dad which went to jail for raping her I know this becuase I was the one that came over to her house when she called me crying and I have a key so I came in and saw him pinning her down so thats antother reason why I want to help her

Go to kid services and tell them he has rapped her and the mother wants her to move in with him they will help you for 2 months till she turns 18

Good luck

In the world today she is looking at a death wish............life at home can't truly be that bad!!!!! Suck it up at least she is safe. DON'T LET HER GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go to the police she can be emancipated and legally leave!!!!!!

It always pays to read the entire thread before posting advice!

I knew it.



Ask your friend to report this to the police, immediately, they'll know best, what steps to take with her past and fear of the situation. Go with her!

Her mother must be one diabolical, disgusting, heartless witch.



Some women should not be allowed to have children! What a psychopath! If she was in some remote village in Africa, she'd probably be stoned to death, which wouldn't be unfair at all.

So, what happened when you saw this?

Are you looking for friends then?