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Actually my 40 year old (41 actually) was the best....ever Unfortunatel, it takes more than sex to make a relationship work

Not true that younger men last longer, older men can usually control themselves better and hold out longer till their woman is satisfied. Just my experience anyway, the younger men I've been with was when I was younger also, and it was wham bam thank you m'am. Now, I'd go 10, maybe 15 years younger if I was looking, but we're still talking 40ish or close. My kid's age (late 20's), no way! I'd feel like a child molester!

Nope

Thanks Vonney....I know that definitely goes for me. I hve a 19yr old daughter...I definitely wouldn't go out wit someone or sleep with someone that would be a better match for her than me. 5 years younger is my max limit

The thing about younger men and stamina is that while *potentially* younger men could probably maintain a harder erection for longer, in practice it's usually "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am," so I suspect that stamina is rarely an issue. I know that when I was younger it was all about "getting in" and the "getting it done." And as far as stamina...well, really, how long does a guy have to last to satisfy a lady? I mean, is 30 minutes long enough? An hour? Two hours? Aren't there are a variety of other factors - like touching, kissing, different strokes/positions - that add up to a good sexual experience? I know I experience sex now as a panoply of contact and movement - a good love-session being like a mutually created symphony of sensations.

I would say the main difference for between having sex now and in the past would be what I call the reliability of response: when you're in your twenties - thirties it's more or less automatic - it almost takes some countervailing force to prevent an erection. You don't have to worry much about being too tired or having eaten/drank too much - definite concerns for me if I want to be at my peak now. Another difference is the speed of achieving orgasm. In my twenties I could climax in 2 minutes flat - and more than occasionally did . I have no problem with maintaining an erection once underway, but it sometimes can take awhile before having an orgasm. Occasionally that can prove a little frustrating, but when it comes it often seems far more intense than orgasms I recall from my youth. Also, I've learned that sex doesn't always have to end in ejaculation (it's possible to experience near-orgasmic states without ejaculation - another new thing about being older for me).

To me now, sex is far more about "the journey" than the destination. I feel free to enjoy all the sensations, and to let whatever may come come. So to speak.

Well said ambrose

i thought this thread was for older women? is there something you want to come clean with Jeff?

I picked the first one, up to five years difference, the last two men i have been serious with were 49 and 50 going younger than me and up to my age because i have figured out if they are fifty and never been married something is deffo odd with the picture you are looking at, that is just my opinion.

some really good points

More like **someone** I'd like to come clean with, Irish.

Thanks, Morg!

Appreciate that, Kissme. I'm glad you and Eric are so happy.

that is cool of you mr.J keep being yourself we like you for just who you are and just what you are made of

sex-yes

a long relationship-probably not.

I would want him to have a family etc....

but I also would want to give him some amazing memories while he is raising his family

Wooo hooo-I can understand more -and as to the question from the OP -Yes I would as long as he is at least ten years older than my son and now and is smart enough to know all the little things that matter like Ambrose said.

Not interested in younger men ....... because its also about having a relationship that goes beyond the bedroom that makes it special. To feel at ease and comfortable with another not just in body, but mind and spirit.

I think that its only something that happens over time as well - perhaps its learning about ourselves and our own bodies that changes our experiences - all I know for sure that its a difference experience for me now (when it happens ) then when I was younger ............ and truly while a "younger male" may physically attract me - its also about personality and character.

I like that

Hey, Arlene!

Hi Sweetie Missed seeing you and it is great to see you dressed up all the time.

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