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i was dateing this guy for 5 months,he told me that befor he was seeing me, he was dateing a married women for 6yrs.he told me that he was over her, but i found love cards she has gave him threw the years,when he would get a phone call, he would hide his phone so i couldnt see who was calling? and would tell me that i need to learn to trust him!!when he would go to work,he wouldnt answer his phone,(mind you that he works for himself!!) he never had a problem talking to me befor? every job he dose is all for women,he says that they are married women and i am tripping for nothing? (why cant there husbands do the work?) my nerves couldnt take anymore.!! i blew him off.!! do you think that i did the right thing? my heart tells me that he has been cheating on me...please give me your advice........

Heeeelllllllllloooooooo..........

What took u so long to get rid of the asshole?

Womens intuition is very good thing. The problem is most women don't listen to it when they see the red flags. I think moving on with out him now rather then waiting for even more heartache tis probably the best.

Someone who really cares for you will be totally open and won't give you any reason to be suspicious...I think you did the right thing!!!!!!!!!!

thanks,he was trying to make me feel like i was wrong for feeling this way?

A guy who would knowingly date a married woman, and for 6 years at that, is not trustworthy. Learn to trust him? I think not!

You're never wrong to go with your gut instinct and he certainly wasn't acting like someone who is trustworthy!!!!!!!!!

what really opend my eyes also, is the fact that all the work he dose, is friends of hers.!!!

Don't take his issues and personalize them. Never feel guilty for wantng to be treated right!

Thank-You.!!! i really needed to hear that i am right.!!

womans doubt never lied

we had been created with a super natural instict.

Maybe he's using her for a reference!

You *absolutely* did the right thing!!!

you DID ask so don't forget this and get all worked up, I think you did the right thing, imo only now a man dating a woman that was married should have sent bells all over the place for you, meaning warning bells, if he had as loose of morals and he has portrayed to you why would you go out with him in the first place? must look at it unemotional girlfriend, too bad i don't take my own advice, but at the end of the day you have deffo made the right decision, congradulations on seeing things as they are

What you have said here is he is hiding things from you..wont let you see who is calling...and he says he went to work but yet dont answer the phone...I think you know the answer...and know what to do...Confront him..but i am sure he will have no answers or throw in ur face you need to trust him...You and only you has to make the choice either to stay or Go....But in only my opinion he is hiding something..and i think he may be cheating on you...this is based on what you have said here...Honey you deserve Better...and for him to be totally honest to you...All the best...

Thank-You..what really got me, was when i found all them cards she has gave him. and why would he save them, inless he is still in love with her? they even took trips together,it was just to much for me to swollow when i found all that stuff.!!

you sweet thang, you are correct on what you have said but she has already left him so imo she made the right choice.Love how you explain things to the point no grey areas, dammed the grey areas! (((JO))))

If your heart told you he's cheating, he probably is, but with the chance you can be wrong, you have to make a choice, stay or go....if you stay expect the worst and hope for the best...and get some work out of him.

Just know you made the right decision and try and be happy and move on..you or anyone else dont deserve to be treated that way...Time things will get easier and i know its hard when you do love someone with all ur heart...its always why why why...but dont dewell on the past...you will find someone that will be for you and only you..and be totally honest to you....