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Hey evrybody !

Why does some one come with direct false information?

I am **** off - you have a very serius good conversation - but then all of a sudden - evrything turns into a wrong direction.

The one you you write with - chat with - Does not live where "she" told - she does not have the job she told, and it turns out to be a sad story, because of that..

Did you have the knowledge in the first place, you had never asked for anything. Because - you cannot make the impossible dream - possible..

The reality of the Net perhaps

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. As a woman, I know you do have to be cautious about some things. Not to give away too much information for safety's sake.

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I agree with Dana. Reality of the net. It takes all types.

Can tell It's not only one time it has happend - and there is a lot of a difference from New York in the US or Madrid in Spain to Ghana or Kenya.

From the last Countries is a VISA impossible to my country unless you are really rich - when you ask for it..

Were you cleaning out a coal stove.

Unfortunately it happens often...

I did not use my formula on my trip wish i had but normally i can ferret out a fake

This topic has been resurrected so many times but is still good to remind people!
Many keep saying it is just normal for the net. That may be.. but it don't make it right.
If you read most profiles, they say they are looking for long term or marriage, want someone honest who don't play mind games and so on.
Then in their own profile, they have a picture of when they were 80 pounds lighter and 10 years younger and most of what they tell you is crap!

This makes it so difficult to find a rose in the midst of all of the weeds!
All I can say is..... If anyone is looking for a serious relationship, they wont start it all out with lies!!
Just be honest and let the real thing find you.
If it is based on lies and a fantasy world.. Well.. it comes right back to them.

Then wonder why they are here looking for years
In the long run, be yourself and be honest.
To hell with the rest!
If this offends those who lie--- too damn bad.. try the truth!

Seems like, from what is said by a lot of people on the forum, there are people, maybe lots of them, who are here just to play games??? It's the internet, you can hide behind a computer, be anyone, anything. These people can't seriously be looking for a partner when what they are telling you is so false--because at some point, you would have to find out the truth. I guess, go very slowly when getting to know someone, don't jump to conclusions and think you have found a wonderful person right off the bat...look for clues or signs that they are not telling the truth. Don't assume everyone is what/who they say they are. As far as visa from 3rd world countries: be extremely careful about people from poor countries--of course not all, but some are scammers. Again, must be careful, be wary. Good luck.

Some have been playing this game so long that they have their act well polished!

What a poor, lonely and desperate life!

Lies eventually catch up.

heres a good way to get people to stop writing to you,, (as I did)
Add the phrase to your profile, under the what you are looking for in a partner section.

No drinking or drugs and must be honest.............
For some reason, almost everyone stopped emailing me.
That is fine with me to weed out the garden a bit!

I don't email you because you don't like me

Don't feed me that crap!

I'm an equal opportunity discriminator.

We just have strongly differing opinions on a lot of things.

But as per topic- still a lot that claim to want to find an honest caring mate. But are not willing to give what they ask for in someone else.

Here or in RW

but YOU said that it weeds out the liars when you put honesty in your profile...yet I am not a liar....and yet I don't interact with you...

We have strongly different opinions on things?

man overboard is the only one I can think of..............

Some people are just sick and can't even admit their lies when they are caught red-handed...Now that's the epidimy of a sorry ass person!!!!!!!!!

There you go again,
attempting to change the meaning of what is said to fit into your agenda.
Did I ever say that all whom don't email me are liars? NO

I also did not say that it stops ALL liars from emailing me.

You are the one overboard here,

However......... My first reply in this Thread says it pretty clearly.
I have no use at all for the liars and game players.

Sorry, It will not work, trying to feed me Horse crap & telling me it is pudding.

aw....so sad, you don't remember the waterbed joke....