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Aawww blimey! what a crap start to my Birthday..

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 6:33 AM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
I work with elderlys also in their homes..and its terrible when you do lose one of them...HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLAIRE..


Thankyooo Joanne.. teddy bear
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casie1600
Somewhere, Indiana USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 7:32 AM CST
Aww, how sad... thats just terrible... but the day must go on, so remember it is your birthday and think of the good things, like your room!!! grin

I hope that things turn around for you today and that it turns out to be a wonderful day!!!

comfort hug teddy bear hug comfort


bouquet of flowers
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 7:36 AM CST
casie1600 wrote:
Aww, how sad... thats just terrible... but the day must go on, so remember it is your birthday and think of the good things, like your room!!!

I hope that things turn around for you today and that it turns out to be a wonderful day!!!


Someone just messaged me and asked me what I got for my birthday BESIDES a dead body.. giggle


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casie1600
Somewhere, Indiana USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 7:54 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Someone just messaged me and asked me what I got for my birthday BESIDES a dead body..



OMG!! Thats a blunt way of putting it!! WOW! Thats horrible to think of it that way!! wow! uh oh! wow!

Well, I hope you get any more and much better gifts!!

teddy bear gift teddy bear
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 7:58 AM CST
casie1600 wrote:
OMG!! Thats a blunt way of putting it!! WOW! Thats horrible to think of it that way!!

Well, I hope you get any more and much better gifts!!


It is.. but it made me laugh.. I wasn't expecting it. laugh

I just got another surprise! an ex Bf (who wimped out and ran a long time a go).. Just sent me flowers..

AND!!... said.. 'Claire if you are still not with anyone in 2010.. we could get engaged at the May Day celebrations in Padstow, live in a big farmhouse with lots of chickens, we are not getting any younger'


shock shock




Speak for you bloody self mate!

laugh

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jus_4you
pleasantville, New Jersey USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:01 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
I work in care.. for people that want to stay at home (rather than be in hospice hospital care)

One of the clients I took on a few months ago in my neighbour ..

He was vereeee sickly.. had a big brain tumour behind his right eye.. (Hep C).. and other bits and bobs regarding his liver.

Anyhooo... I left here.. what 50mins ago? .. and found him on the floor at the back of his flat.. cold as a stone.. not twitching and jerking like he does when he is alive.. and a vereeee percuilar colour. Poor chap, he was such a nice man.

I called the doc.. waited for him to come out to tell me that he had died last night. (I last saw him about 9.30pm)

The doctor said that as my neighbour has a 'Complicated history' .. I would have to wait for him to contact the coroner to see if the police needed to be called... and too lock the door back up.. and wait for a call.

So here I am..

This is not really the way I wanted to get the morning off work.
It can only get better i know how you feel my father died on my sons birthday i had spent the whole day getting his cake and gift only to get a call from my sister that we had to board the next flight out to florida. hope the rest of the day is a gem for and you get showered with flowers and gifts happy birthdaykiss hug cheers
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:03 AM CST
jus_4you wrote:
It can only get better i know how you feel my father died on my sons birthday i had spent the whole day getting his cake and gift only to get a call from my sister that we had to board the next flight out to florida. hope the rest of the day is a gem for and you get showered with flowers and gifts happy birthday


Aawww..

thankyou hug
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:04 AM CST
Remind me not to be ill around your b/day next year.....professor uh oh! help grin



hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:06 AM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Remind me not to be ill around your b/day next year.....


hahaha laugh
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casie1600
Somewhere, Indiana USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:10 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
It is.. but it made me laugh.. I wasn't expecting it.

I just got another surprise! an ex Bf (who wimped out and ran a long time a go).. Just sent me flowers..

AND!!... said.. 'Claire if you are still not with anyone in 2010.. we could get engaged at the May Day celebrations in Padstow, live in a big farmhouse with lots of chickens, we are not getting any younger'

Speak for you bloody self mate!


Hehehe.. I laughed too, but wasnt going to admit it on here!! lol!! Still was rather blunt though, whoever sent it is lucky you have a good sence of humor!! But I suppose everyone on here already knows you do!! lol!!
laugh

I cant believe the nerve of your ex!! What a horses patute!! In 2010!! LMAO!! So I wonder what he has going on until then... LOL!! Thats just crazy!! Live in a farmhouse with lots of chickens!!! LMAO!! Ok, so the farm house wouldntbe bad I dont think, but chickens are just nasty little creatures!! My son got three chicks for easter one year, they were died green, red, and yellow... they all turned out to be roosters, and noisy and nasty!!

I like the way he is asking you out on a date, trying to say sorry for the past, hey wanna go to dinner, nothing! Just hey if your single it would be convienient for me to uh hook up with you so I dont die a lonely old jerk... I mean man... Thats just a great way of asking someone to marry you!!

Thanks for that, I needed another good laugh today!! Its barely 9 in the morning and I already have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard on cs this morning!!!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:47 AM CST
sorry Claayer.... but if you were the last person he saw before he died, he was a happy man!


BTW....want me to come and wash your dishes for your birthday? Floors, included!rolling on the floor laughing
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:52 AM CST
casie1600 wrote:
Hehehe.. I laughed too, but wasnt going to admit it on here!! lol!! Still was rather blunt though, whoever sent it is lucky you have a good sence of humor!! But I suppose everyone on here already knows you do!! lol!!


I cant believe the nerve of your ex!! What a horses patute!! In 2010!! LMAO!! So I wonder what he has going on until then... LOL!! Thats just crazy!! Live in a farmhouse with lots of chickens!!! LMAO!! Ok, so the farm house wouldntbe bad I dont think, but chickens are just nasty little creatures!! My son got three chicks for easter one year, they were died green, red, and yellow... they all turned out to be roosters, and noisy and nasty!!

I like the way he is asking you out on a date, trying to say sorry for the past, hey wanna go to dinner, nothing! Just hey if your single it would be convienient for me to uh hook up with you so I dont die a lonely old jerk... I mean man... Thats just a great way of asking someone to marry you!!


Thanks for that, I needed another good laugh today!! Its barely 9 in the morning and I already have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard on cs this morning!!!


haha I know!

but to be fair to him, he is single.. he said is just giving me plenty of time because he knows my head is elsewhere. laugh

But still.. it did make me feel a bit like a 'last resort' laugh rolling eyes
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 8:52 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
sorry Claayer.... but if you were the last person he saw before he died, he was a happy man!BTW....want me to come and wash your dishes for your birthday? Floors, included!


haha yes pleeeease!.. and help me finish this painting.. grrrr frustrated
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:01 AM CST
Happy birthday anyway Claire. Sorry for your neighbor, hopefully he's better off now.

I'd like to console you, but I'm not doing your floors!

cake Pucker up and blow!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:02 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
Happy birthday anyway Claire. Sorry for your neighbor, hopefully he's better off now.

I'd like to console you, but I'm not doing your floors!

Pucker up and blow!


Dammit! laugh

I think I have changed my mind about the paint again.. I decided on a different colour.. I think.


laugh rolling eyes rolling eyes


teddy bear
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Aseeker
Seattle USA
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:04 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
I work in care.. for people that want to stay at home (rather than be in hospice hospital care)

One of the clients I took on a few months ago in my neighbour ..

He was vereeee sickly.. had a big brain tumour behind his right eye.. (Hep C).. and other bits and bobs regarding his liver.

Anyhooo... I left here.. what 50mins ago? .. and found him on the floor at the back of his flat.. cold as a stone.. not twitching and jerking like he does when he is alive.. and a vereeee percuilar colour. Poor chap, he was such a nice man.

I called the doc.. waited for him to come out to tell me that he had died last night. (I last saw him about 9.30pm)

The doctor said that as my neighbour has a 'Complicated history' .. I would have to wait for him to contact the coroner to see if the police needed to be called... and too lock the door back up.. and wait for a call.

So here I am..

This is not really the way I wanted to get the morning off work.


Sorry to hear about this. I used to do the same kind of work, but was drafted into it by a woman who was like a mother to me. One night I just felt like I had to stay at her house and sleep, so I crashed on the couch. Last trip to her room was at about midnight, she sat there pretending she was cuddling the baby (I was about 3 months pregnant) after it was born. Woke up at 3AM and knew she was gone as soon as I saw her. She never slept with her arm like that. Got the spoon, did what I had to...then had to wake up the family and tell them. That totally sucked! The first, the adult son, I even had to go through all of it all over again, just to make it REAL for him. I remember my body trying to go through what I was supposed to do, by the book, while my brain was outside it screaming NOOOO!
I think it was about 5am when I asked the priest and the cop if they needed me anymore, or if I could please leave now.

Sorry for your totally sucky morning.
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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:05 AM CST
sorry to hear how your day started, I also used to work with the elderly, and know how hard it is when they pass. Finding him like that must have been hard, and having to contact his family, now the day has to get better.
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:08 AM CST
Aseeker wrote:
Sorry to hear about this. I used to do the same kind of work, but was drafted into it by a woman who was like a mother to me. One night I just felt like I had to stay at her house and sleep, so I crashed on the couch. Last trip to her room was at about midnight, she sat there pretending she was cuddling the baby (I was about 3 months pregnant) after it was born. Woke up at 3AM and knew she was gone as soon as I saw her. She never slept with her arm like that. Got the spoon, did what I had to...then had to wake up the family and tell them. That totally sucked! The first, the adult son, I even had to go through all of it all over again, just to make it REAL for him. I remember my body trying to go through what I was supposed to do, by the book, while my brain was outside it screaming NOOOO!
I think it was about 5am when I asked the priest and the cop if they needed me anymore, or if I could please leave now.

Sorry for your totally sucky morning.


Aaawwww comfort hug

It has been a funny ole morning.. I haven't learnt a lot today.
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:09 AM CST
kitty01 wrote:
sorry to hear how your day started, I also used to work with the elderly, and know how hard it is when they pass. Finding him like that must have been hard, and having to contact his family, now the day has to get better.


He was 56yr Kitty.. blues not very old is it.. poor chap. He was such a nice kind soul, helped anyone and everyone.. and not ONE of them came to see him while he was ill.. not one.

teddy bear
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Arlene101
Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: May 16, 2008, 9:14 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLAIRE!!!!cake balloons for you Happy Birthday! Hope your day gets better.
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