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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: May 17, 2008, 8:16 AM CST
roseofsharon wrote:
Sorry, is it just me?? I don't get the football connection....??


I don't get it eitherconfused
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: May 17, 2008, 8:30 AM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I may have a variant of this disorder myself. Can you give the name of a therapist (attractive female) that could help me overcome this problem?


I just caught this...you don't need help, you just need someone who can really appreciate your disorder.....batting eyelashes shamrock giggle
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: May 17, 2008, 8:37 AM CST
belthozore wrote:
Ok I have a problem. I met a friend, we are kinda getting lucky with each other which is very good. My problem is I last to long without getting a orgasm. I could get one but I guess i need more time. She thinks its her fault and she thinks she is pretty or to fat or any excuse. I tried to tell her in my last relationship I had the same problem. I've gone thru a football, good thing it wasnt my, team but it was her's lol.
How do I let my friend and anyone else know without them feeling insecure. We are going for our 3rd time and im kinda worried cause she is like it better happen. I guess the plus side is i dont need viagra. Tho my ex did say i do, I said for what, to last for another 8 hours, geez I mightbe dead by then.


You should look into getting some help from the experts about this. My friend had the same problem. He was very frustrated cause he could just not reach orgasm during sex or masturbation....or it took him forever...
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: May 17, 2008, 8:42 AM CST
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belthozore
woonsocket, Rhode Island USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:46 AM CST
Portiea wrote:
I don't get it either


During a football game, sorry i forgot the add that in there.
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belthozore
woonsocket, Rhode Island USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:50 AM CST
Thanks guy and girls, very interesting thoughts, i still dont know if its a good thing or not, bad thing my ex calls last night saying she misses us and what times we had in the bedroom. I had the same problem with her when we first started out too, it takes me 3 or 4 trys before i can orgasm and then im kinda good for there, but yeah it takes forever to. I hate to see a doctor about it, i hate them checking me out. I feel so violated over it.

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SincereInNY
NYC, New York USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 1:00 AM CST
Regarding your comment:

Thanks guy and girls, very interesting thoughts, i still dont know if its a good thing or not, bad thing my ex calls last night saying she misses us and what times we had in the bedroom. I had the same problem with her when we first started out too, it takes me 3 or 4 trys before i can orgasm and then im kinda good for there, but yeah it takes forever to.

I hate to see a doctor about it, i hate them checking me out. I feel so violated over it.
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Hon, this last statement is frightening (and my comment not intended as a rag, however) if you a afraid to go to the Doctor with a problem which would probably cause Him/Her ENVY (with your prowess), what else are you afraid to go to the doctor for?

Honey, this is your health we are talking about. Drive, don't walk to the Dr's office and find out what is really going on. I wish you well. handshake
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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: May 21, 2008, 1:11 AM CST
Best to get checked out to make sure that everything is ok ........... its not something to be ashamed about as its an indication that something is awry.

A couple of thoughts that come to my mind (besides naughty ones! - lol) .... do you have the same issue when you're alone and pleasuring yourself? Are you relaxed and enjoying yourself when you're with your partner or worried about performance?
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honestinlov4u
Perkasie, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 1:11 PM CST
I am glad to hear she thinks she is pretty, all ladies should think that way, especially from their BF. If you want a quicker release, why not talk to her about oral sex before you start...I would guess you may go faster if you are "primed" first, both by doing it to her, as well as having it done to you! Just make sure you still have enough time to satisify her!
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DaisyChick
Portland, Oregon USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 1:27 PM CST
I agree you should see a doctor if it continues. In the meantime I think it may just be anxiety over a comfort issue. I bet once you get more comfortable with her you won't feel as much pressure. Have you tried having a glass or two of wine beforehand to help you relax?

Good luck!
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