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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: May 17, 2008, 3:54 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
Yeah :happybirthday: Claayer


hahah thankyooo xx
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TheresMyFriend
Gadsden, Alabama USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 3:54 PM CST
LonelyHeartedm wrote:
Is it okay to pretend to be someone your not just to get other people to like you?


It must be...hey...look at Nobama...he's has a lot of people fooled! rolling on the floor laughing
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joanie04984
North Woods, Maine USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 5:06 PM CST
Of course not laugh

Sooner or later, you'll have to be just you dunno
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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: May 17, 2008, 9:40 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
In certain "must-emergency" situations, YES! Your damn right it is okay to pretend if you really need to accomplish a certain agenda, get capital for a certain business or personal endeavor, or to gain access to something that would really make life easier with a certain project.

It surely is not okay to pretend to make new friends or get closer to somebody you may fancy, cause it will just blow up in your face down the road. And the person who will be most angry will be you...for lying to yourself.




Agree with you on this ............. we all "pretend" at moments to get what we want or what's best for us; but there is a big difference in living your entire life this way. We learn to be nice or cooperate to reach our goal and I think that's something that we learn from childhood (how to at least try to get our own way).
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:28 PM CST
This is for all of the women aboveblushing

I will pretend to be the pimp........ as long as I get to try the goods first!

** I can already see the line at my front door**rolling on the floor laughing kiss
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Serenity1971
Serenity's Island, Arizona USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:46 PM CST
Absolutely not!!!!

If people don't like me for who I am, then there's the door...Don't let hit you in the arse on the way out.

professor
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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:50 PM CST
Serenity1971 wrote:
Absolutely not!!!!

If people don't like me for who I am, then there's the door...Don't let hit you in the arse on the way out.


Not you again!
You seem to be everywhere.sticking out tongue
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Serenity1971
Serenity's Island, Arizona USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:54 PM CST
friendsfirst wrote:
Not you again!
You seem to be everywhere.



:One eyebrow raised: And the problem being? sticking out tongue

Don't start scold


grin
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: May 17, 2008, 11:59 PM CST
What's the point in pretending to be someone you're not just to get other people to like you? If it works and they like you, then they don't really like you, if you're not being you, they like someone you're not. And most people will see through it, and then they won't like you or who you're pretending to be. You have to be really good to pull something like this off for any length of time, and you get so good at pretending to be someone you're not that you're not you anymore. And then who are you?
dunno
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:01 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
This is for all of the women above

I will pretend to be the pimp........ as long as I get to try the goods first!

** I can already see the line at my front door**
And that would be pretending? You can't pretend to be something you really are! rolling on the floor laughing
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:04 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
And that would be pretending? You can't pretend to be something you really are!


hmmm Don't I wish!
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:08 AM CST
No,because they end up liking THE MASK.
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KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:33 AM CST
I am...Batman.grin
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:34 AM CST
KrazieStill wrote:
I am...Batman.


I am ............THEWALL.here's to you
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KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:35 AM CST
thewall2 wrote:
I am ............THEWALL.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 18, 2008, 12:40 AM CST

You laughing at THEWALL?scold
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HuskyRomantic
Salt Lake City, Utah USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 1:45 AM CST
As many others have stated previously, why not be yourself and allow them to like what you have to offer.
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snow52
Palmer, Alaska USA
Posted: May 18, 2008, 1:57 AM CST
To pretend is a lie......
In the long run truth is better.......
If I can't trust someone with the little things, how will I ever trust them
with the big stuff. Truth is so important........and what do you gain by a lie.
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ltlmstrouble
Milton Keynes, England UK
Posted: May 18, 2008, 2:20 AM CST
why pretend? You would eventually have to be yourself. It is much easier to be honest than to try to maintain a lie.

If someone does not like who you really are, why would you want them in the first place. hug
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 18, 2008, 3:33 AM CST
It's funny.......everybody says don't pretend,but how many times do we pretend to be nice to people in our everyday lives,when deep down.......we don't give a s.hit about them.


Like.....with your boss? professor
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