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I feel used, I feel like an idiot and my dignity has been dressed down. I'm not into one night stands nor sport-sex. Recently an old anecdote reversed itself; "If you sit at home, a beautiful woman is not going to knock on your door". Well, one did. A new neighbour. Very attractive, very sensuous. It ended up being a four night stand. She assured me that she had broken up with her boyfriend....odd, she was out with him last night and tonight as well.

She'll likely call or knock on my door tomorrow or the next day, if the mood strikes her. Easy answer, NO, I'm busy. Easy emotions from a man who's been in the desert too long with no water ? NO.

I've heard this so often from women, "Why do I always attract the wrong type" ? My question, why do I ? I would guess that it's the human condition. We have needs at times that will cause us to set aside our principles and dignity.

I think it would be a lot easier if she didn't live in the suite above me. I don't need advice on this one, I need a slap and a bucket of ice water over my head. But I would like a woman's perspective on what she is doing.

This one should be interesting.

I hate to say this Leo but unfortunately there are some women out there that just want more attention on themselves to satisfy their own ego even if it means taking advantage of a great guy like yourself.

You don't need a slap or a bucket of ice water. Most people want the love of another person in their lives, and sometimes because they want it so badly they make some poor choices or decisions.

Hi Leo. I'm sure the opinions will come to those who wait. :)

JMO but use her back. I know that's not what you'll do though. You're better than that.

I guess Leo she found you attractive.......??
Could be many reasons?
So you both used each other for the moment .

Meaning being a female and knowing how some of us can tick Unfortunately the actions of said women end up reflecting on those of us that aren't that way.

I'm just not a user. But your advice would suit many.

Sounds like one of those women whose self-esteem is based on how many men she can f**k. Never understood that, most men will do it with anything, so what has a woman proved about her looks or personality or worth?

She wants to be used, but if you don't, shut the door on her. If you want it and so does she, and you give in to her advances, why feel guilty?

Leo.
You said no advice.
So i stopped by with some popcorn.

Catch 22 here.
If you tell her ..GO AWAY!
She will POSSIBLY want you even more.

just my 2 cents

Now I'm really confused. But thank you my dear.

Yeaaaahhhhhh.FREE LOVE!..You go girl!

ENJOY THE NOW LEO!Who knows what tomorrow will bring?

I won't revisit your profile but age 61?Correct?

We are always most critical of ourselves.

Karma...It'll come back to bite her in the rear....It's just a case of when...

You may be right.

Hey you had pleasurable times??I guess
Smile enjoy
You may get another neighbour?
Who knows?
Enjoy it for what it was

I'm an emotional fool and that gets in the way.

I didn't say he should do it, I just said if he does he shouldn't feel guilty.

That was reply to FF, I forgot to quote.

I am a one woman man. Love, devotion for as long as we both shall live.

Yes, 61. She is 46. One hell of an ego boost.

I dont have an answer to that one Leo?
I live one day at a time myself.
Just dont dwell on it thats my advice what could have been.Like cancer a makes one dis...eased.
Remember the good times..........