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Thank you.

Well,she probably feels that from you to some extent and just might want to be sure that is really YOU!

Nah, she just wants to f#@k.

If she was interested in him as a person she wouldn't have been going out with her boyfriend the next night or two.

Unless you want to become a one woman at a time man Leo, leave this one alone.

JMO, as a woman.

This don't always work .if he resists,she may want him even more.


However.That does look like somewhat of a high maintenance situation.

I see we have a good discussion going here.

Do what you want,
but if she still is with her boyfriend, I'd back away.

Three's a crowd,and you don't want trouble from the boyfriend either.

She obviously can't keep her hands off of you.


Don'[t feel guilty or used by giving in to her sexual demands over and over again......



you have the most important power over her

Ala has the key here....me thinks?

Reverse psycology not...... and doesnt make things last......
Just my opinion okay......
Please excuse my spelling ?????psycology???well ?

My ex. could not keep her hand's off me , after the stitches in my head, I got an order of protection.

Either way you know she is diggin the attention.

What is her age LEO? Why does this matter? Not sure.

How long with the other guy?Maybe she is trying to get him to step up.
And she has gotten that from him a bit,i guess from what i've read.

i agree completely, what she is doing is selfish and heartless not the signs of

a very nice person. Don't let her play this game, walk away you deserve better.

Mmmmm, yeah...... mind if I join you??

I confess, I fell in love with Rose of Sharon's puppy, when I first saw her/his picture here on CS

Hank!!!!! Hi ya, love.... long time, no see!! Brilliant to have you here, handsome....... Muuaahhh...!!!

That was not my puppy, it is my mother's........ you fell in love with him?? Ahhhh...... what about ME??!!

MUUUUAAAAHHHH

Why does it matter "what she is doing"?


Focus on yourself Leo. This is not the first time you have given into needs too quickly and gotten hurt. Get to know someone first before sharing yourself with them.

Difficult perhaps but it eliminates a multitude of problems later.

I'm sorry you're hurting

Good morning, Sweetie, how have you been?

What if you knew the water was poisoned? Still drink it?

I've been told that relationships which start out with sex, continue with sex (only) and have very tiny chances of developing into something more. I've been called old-fashioned for saying it, too. However, maybe something to consider. And if this lady knocked on your door only to have sex with you, I'd be extremely suspicious if I were you. I mean, dreams do come true occasionally, but something just doesn't seem right here.

Well all i can say is - it never happens to me!!



Just go with the flow

but if you cant handle the situation then tell her straight

Or worse case -- Move!!

Real story for my distant past. Late high school/early college years.

I fell head over heels for literally the girl next door. Well in this case

the girl across the street. She was a couple of years younger. But for

a time we hit off like two peas in a pod, two kids in love, two widgets

with super glue between them.

Anyways....the pea pod split, the super glue weakened, and love

faded at least on her part. And she broke it off and began to see

someone else.

I can remember sitting there on a lonely Friday/Saturday nites....seeing

his car pull up to her house. So just saying I know the feeling here.

So you got my empathy on this one.

Some advice..........that I do keep myself. Never date a next door girl.

Initial stages of a new relationship are rough enough. Knowing their

activities....comings and goings....only add problems to it. If there are

any jealousy issues on either side of the fence. Proximity brings them

out.

Second piece of advice. My buddies eventually figured out, that I was

lower than a watermellon in a patch, a catfish on the bottom of the

pond, roadkill on the side of the road. OK I will stop.....even today it

does not make feel that good. They began to get me out the house

on date nights of Fri/Sat.

In other words.....they put some distance between me and the cause

of the depression....at the right times. I suggest the same if you can

do it.

Last piece of advice. Everyone in the world has been here.

For some the rejection of a lover come from nearby and for others the

rejection is 1000s of miles away on the net. Both are just as painful,

depressing, and confusing. Today, I am little wiser (boy, would I like to

say a whole lot smarter here but cannot) than when I was then. Now

I realize my value is not in this past love, but in the present and future.

Gentlepaws, know you got value and worth....dignity if

bruised...wisdom if hard earned.....life worth living if pained and

stressed.

From a bud that has been there and done that.

Good story and post, ttom