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I feel used, I feel like an idiot and my dignity has been dressed down. I'm not into one night stands nor sport-sex. Recently an old anecdote reversed itself; "If you sit at home, a beautiful woman is not going to knock on your door". Well, one did. A new neighbour. Very attractive, very sensuous. It ended up being a four night stand. She assured me that she had broken up with her boyfriend....odd, she was out with him last night and tonight as well.

She'll likely call or knock on my door tomorrow or the next day, if the mood strikes her. Easy answer, NO, I'm busy. Easy emotions from a man who's been in the desert too long with no water ? NO.

I've heard this so often from women, "Why do I always attract the wrong type" ? My question, why do I ? I would guess that it's the human condition. We have needs at times that will cause us to set aside our principles and dignity.

I think it would be a lot easier if she didn't live in the suite above me. I don't need advice on this one, I need a slap and a bucket of ice water over my head. But I would like a woman's perspective on what she is doing.