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I agree. I don't think I could love someone that I wasn't sexually compatible with them.

Hi dana do you think you would view it differently if you were in a relationship, and
due to illness your partner was no longer able to have sex ?

how would you get your kicks morganlee in that situation ? would you stay withthat person but screw somebody else ?

Hi mate, to be honest I would not be with anyone long term who did not satisfy me and visa versa. If the result of an accident or such I don't know if I can answer truthfully unless placed in that position. It is easy to make assumptions through the expectancy of love and our notions but unless I was placed in that most diffcult position I honeslty don't know what decision I would make. I cvertainly would support them but whether I remained faithful after a lengthy period, I doubt it. I am just being honest. Sex and intimacy is a closeness I envision to be a part of love.

Hi Gilly honey...how are you 2day????
I honestly don't know if I could do that,hope i will never have to o it ...Lol

Very truthful honey, some people would get on here and say yeah until death etc. etc. but faced with reality they paint a different picture. good for you Lola.

yes and ?....................................

YOU'RE JUST BEATING ABOUT THE BUSH WITH OUT ANSWERING THE QUESTION ????




my answer is simply this ! if the sex was right in the first place then i can live on the memories of that sex ..and spend the rest of my life with that person.. but enjoy screwing somebody else !

GIVE ME A WOMAN THAT TALKS STRAIGHT LIKE THAT !..SO THAT WE CAN MOVE ON TO THE OTHER MATTERS

...i would'nt go deep into na long lasting romantic relationship with somebody i was'nt sexually compatiable with !...you'll discover that you're just wasting your time ( until either you or them find somebody else that you like but enjoy having sex with as well !... that other partner that you still love then becomes a freind !

once you've been there ..done that..and worn the tea shirt ...not just from your side, but the other persons side ...then you'll leave out the nonsense and really start talking to people !



now how much you're suppose to love your freinds ? ( especially intimate ones ) ?? as oppose to your romantic partner is where the real talking starts !!!!!

NOT FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT ARE NOT REALLY " TALKING " but for the good people on this planet that always ' lay their cards on the table ' and leaves out all the CRAP

' SO THAT NOBODY GETS HURT '

Well...you might be right....

hi lola ! welcome to the thread girl !

lots going on for me glad you're joined the thread because its nice to have people that are really talking on the thread !

i always go the personality myself because thats what you spend most of your time talking to ..but realise that a persons attitude towards sex a ffects their attitude towards life and relating to people !

i find that the people that are small minded and pretentious about sex are the same about a lot of other things !...and when you tart getting into them ..you wish you just forget about them , what they had to say about sex, they're all make up ...and just walk off and go about your bussiness !

hi polanski ! welcome to the thread mate !...love people that are really talking instead of pretending that they're more loyal or spiritually advance than anybody else whilst on a deeper level saying nothing what so ever !

hi gilly and thanks mate, its an aussie trait what you see is generally what you get. I would rather be truthful and attract a gal that liked me for who I really am rather than some wanker that just agreed for attention. Shit I am on here for it being a single site, not a bloody ego site. cheers matey.

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Hi Gilly i can't answer that honestly because i don't know, my ex husband was a builder and fell thro a roof he was sick for 2 yrs , i nursed him thro it, became the breadwinner, and had 2 small children to look after as . I didn't look for sex outside of my marriage.

Gilly you are a sweet heart...

You know...was just thinking.....good sex with the one I love ...that would be what i am looking for...Lol

If I understand you correctly gilly, are you saying that if you find a partner that you are sexually compatible with, and willing to spend the rest of your life with, you still would cheat and enjoy screwing somebody else?...please answer. I think this is a really interesting subject, and I wanna see perspectives without judging, but merely ask to understand.

in the waning years of life is the "sex factor" really that crucial?

just my thoughts but 20 years from now I'll be 72 ,I don't think it will matter as much as her being able to get my rocking chair started... maybe its wishful thinking on my part.

but right now sexual compatibility is in the top 3for a lasting relationship.

I know I would stay if it was a true love, how can people put so much on sex, that is selfish...to leave someone you love just because they can't have sex isnt love at all.

Hi Gilly i don't think it's about people not being honest, i think love means something different

to each person , and everybody's sex drive is different. I do believe that some people can be happy

with a partner and sex does not have to be the main reason to stay with that person.

I agree morganlee Everybody has different hormone levels. So part of the equation would be tied to that. Those who have high hormone levels value sex much more than those who have lower hormone levels.