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Cristina you are an angel . To answer your question I feel that I am very much anti-social deep down; and it's not that I don't like people but silence and minding my business has been my life so far, and it's difficult and scary to put yourself out there for others to take advantage of, which sadly but trully has been my reality in life, the few times I had enough courage to try in my own way. God on the other hand has never left me, has never judged me, and illuminated my being during really awful and difficult times.

constanza you said a mouthful

i wanted to put my two cents in. Forgive me if i'm being redundant, i didn't bother to read all the replies.

I don't think people can only communicate love through touch.
Or are you suggesting that we may only recieve love, from other people?

I guess i don't have a response to that because i'm not sure of the question.


"There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise."

People choose to be alone for a while, for a many reasons.
It may be a book, or play or some sort of artistic adventure that requires "aloneness."

It's not that one begins to walk a certain path alone, but that one happens to find oneself walking a certain path that currently is free of other people.

We'll meed in the middle. Promise.

Yes, it's difficult and scary to put yourself out there for others to take advantage of special when you've been builting something so special inside yourself. I actually only have this barrier when chosing my man. Of course friends need to give you nice soul food, but as long as they are interesting to chat to is ok. But with match, they don't only need to be interesting to chat to but should be building themselves nicely too.
You seem to be very sensitive angel Constanza
Sometimes very old people "demand" my smile or more in the street. You really feel that you've made their day by smiling or just help them cross the street. They have a very deep, profound tanking for that little gestor. Then i think...isn't that sad? But sweet anyway.