Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 10:42 PM CST
llasvegascutie wrote:you should have told him you were shy and said can we talk first, but you were wrong for keep him guessing or waiting, just say it was his lost not yours but speak up next time so you can get free coffee or dinner
she has no need to explain anything to anyone
yes, i woukd be nicer each time we contact any one to get some lines as an answer
but let be real, how many will just give a one line message saying whtever
"i am busy right now, you deserve a longer mails i will be bacl later"
or
"from what i have read in your profile you seem to be a nice person, but i dont think we will be a good mach"
no people do not answer
this is real, dont expect to get an answer from every one
do you know what?
there is a thread the good guy and good lady list
the poster sugested to send a flower to any one in the list
people where coming and asking to join the list
i have send a flower to those ladies that wanted to join
each one got a wel;come note to the list
only some were nice enought as to send a thank you note, the rest just ignore it
when it was clear it was not a flirt, or trying to correspond
if we would be interested in the others feelings, we would always answer, on the other side, if we know the other will come back to us, we would be more poatient waiting for the answer