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did I do something wrong?

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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:03 PM CST
moonfoxinthesnow wrote:
ok so someone on here actually contacted me today with a flower box note and his phone number and asked me out for coffee... which is really sweet but I'm shy and I felt I needed more time. So I put it on the shelf to think about it for a few hours... when i come back here tonight after work I found a sour grapes note "so I guess your not interested, that sucks" and find out I'm blocked.

So I am just sitting here feeling kinda weird about it.... did I do something wrong or did I just dodge a bullet?


No, I don't think you did anything wrong at all. Its easy for people to forget that some have very busy lives and fitting everything in is no mean feat.....

It sounds as though he was a bit hasty but, for me anyways, if he wasn't bright enough to be able to weigh that possibility up...... would I want to know him??

Although we shouldn't, we often do act on knee-jerk reactions so perhaps give him the benefit of the doubt? But that said, if you encounter further problems with him.... I'd give him the ole heave-ho!!
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:12 PM CST
skwidwurd wrote:
well slap my bum and pickle my nuts! i actually find myself agreeing with alex 192. (never thought i'd ever say THAT!).

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if you have ever read my frist post, and try to undertand me, inestead of atacking me after i was atacked by others, you might be surpriced you would agree with me more

people are more concern in yelling their disagreement that actually undertand the other and word their own believes
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Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:14 PM CST
redbellypirhana wrote:
Truly a bullet dodged...



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ANurse4U
Memphis, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:46 PM CST
well slap my bum and pickle my nuts! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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ANurse4U
Memphis, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:48 PM CST
people are more concern in yelling their disagreement that actually undertand the other and word their own believes
alex_192 wrote:
if you have ever read my frist post, and try to undertand me, inestead of atacking me after i was atacked by others, you might be surpriced you would agree with me more

people are more concern in yelling their disagreement that actually undertand the other and word their own believes


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sillyricky55
San Diego, California USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:55 PM CST
You just ran into a first class idiot. Do you need something or someone like that? I think not. You did nothing wrong. Just go on and be as weet as you already are. He probably won't be missed.
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skwidwurd
Aberdeen, Grampian, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 8:15 PM CST
alex_192 wrote:
if you have ever read my frist post, and try to undertand me, inestead of atacking me after i was atacked by others, you might be surpriced you would agree with me more

people are more concern in yelling their disagreement that actually undertand the other and word their own believes


i think you have me confused with a sheep who follows the flock regardless. without wishing to become embroiled in another argument, i made my OWN judgements based on the posts you'd made and the fact you think you can e-mail someone with your opinions then not allow them the right to reply. i never attacked you, i just disagreed with some of your views - as did others. happens from time to time wink
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 9:51 PM CST
skwidwurd wrote:
i think you have me confused with a sheep who follows the flock regardless. without wishing to become embroiled in another argument, i made my OWN judgements based on the posts you'd made and the fact you think you can e-mail someone with your opinions then not allow them the right to reply. i never attacked you, i just disagreed with some of your views - as did others. happens from time to time


you are asuming too much

i e-mailed not with my opinions, but with facts of my life

there is noting to replay on the facts of my life. nothing to agrre or disagrre



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Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 10:14 PM CST
moonfoxinthesnow wrote:
ok so someone on here actually contacted me today with a flower box note and his phone number and asked me out for coffee... which is really sweet but I'm shy and I felt I needed more time. So I put it on the shelf to think about it for a few hours... when i come back here tonight after work I found a sour grapes note "so I guess your not interested, that sucks" and find out I'm blocked.

So I am just sitting here feeling kinda weird about it.... did I do something wrong or did I just dodge a bullet?
you should have told him you were shy and said can we talk first, but you were wrong for keep him guessing or waiting, just say it was his lost not yours but speak up next time so you can get free coffee or dinner
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 10:42 PM CST
llasvegascutie wrote:
you should have told him you were shy and said can we talk first, but you were wrong for keep him guessing or waiting, just say it was his lost not yours but speak up next time so you can get free coffee or dinner


she has no need to explain anything to anyone

yes, i woukd be nicer each time we contact any one to get some lines as an answer

but let be real, how many will just give a one line message saying whtever

"i am busy right now, you deserve a longer mails i will be bacl later"
or
"from what i have read in your profile you seem to be a nice person, but i dont think we will be a good mach"

no people do not answer

this is real, dont expect to get an answer from every one

do you know what?
there is a thread the good guy and good lady list
the poster sugested to send a flower to any one in the list

people where coming and asking to join the list

i have send a flower to those ladies that wanted to join
each one got a wel;come note to the list
only some were nice enought as to send a thank you note, the rest just ignore it

when it was clear it was not a flirt, or trying to correspond

if we would be interested in the others feelings, we would always answer, on the other side, if we know the other will come back to us, we would be more poatient waiting for the answer

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 9:26 PM CST
wave

you didn't do anything wrong...if the guy couldn't wait one whole day, he's not worth it...he actually told you a lot of things about him already...


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SatelliteServer
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 9:30 PM CST
Tell him to go to Macdonalds Fast lane for a coffee SOLO....
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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 9:31 PM CST
hey moon

where are you?

i am a bit ticked you havent answered my flower

rolling on the floor laughing but ill still be your friend...




maybe thats a sign you utilized the info i sent?


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SatelliteServer
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 9:32 PM CST
Cary0608 wrote:
you didn't do anything wrong...if the guy couldn't wait one whole day, he's not worth it...he actually told you a lot of things about him already...


guess ya never heard the 70's song eh " too Long ago to Long apart she could'nt wait another day for the captain of her heart..."
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Dreamer82
Wahiawa, Hawaii USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:21 PM CST

You don't know that. What ever happened to giving a good guy a chance? That's sad.dunno dunno
moonfoxinthesnow wrote:
Yeah, I can definitely see how sending someone a note like that would be courteous. But at this point, I think it was a bullet dodged too. Thanks for the feedback!!!
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