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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:13 PM CST
roseofsharon wrote:
I may have this wrong but it sounds to me as though (particularly as you mention the 3 e-mail accounts) that you are determined to get back at someone??

Firstly, the best way to p*ss someone off is to move on and have a happy and fulfilled life. If you take a vengeful course of action, it merely shows that whatever they have done bothers you and, in fact, they have won!! Why not channel your energies into something much more positive.... for YOU, not for someone else??

Besides, they are some, if you observe, that, despite claiming this and that, e.g. non-judgemental, easy-going, kind hearted, etc are clearly contradicted by their behaviour.... if you are seen as a vengeful person, do you think this would be deemed "attractive" by others? Let's face it.... you wouldn't be attracted to someone like that, would you??

If you can rise above such behaviour, you are better placed to hold the moral high ground, whereas, if not....... you have already LOST??!!

Just a thought, of course......


I have just one question.... if someone sends you a rude email... what do you do... you block them... (I presume)... then what... are they justified in getting revenge for you exercising you're right not to be abused.... that is basically what he is boasting about... read his posts... I am generally a non-judgmental person.. in that I will chose to try and see the good in people... that is why I sought clarification.. cause I thought I had obviously read his post wrong.... what is sad.. is I didn't... he actually thinks it is OK to seek revenge for something.. which is a persons right to do i.e. block and abusive emailer...

dunno... don't think that makes me a hypocrite.. far from it.. that makes me a person who will speak out if I think someone is clearly wrong.. particularly where they are ACTUALLY boasting about their reprehensible behaviour sigh...

P.s.. I am not giving out to you.. .just can't believe people are entertaining this nitwit





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roseofsharon
Casa Felice, Southampton, England UK
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:21 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
I have just one question.... if someone sends you a rude email... what do you do... you block them... (I presume)... then what... are they justified in getting revenge for you exercising you're right not to be abused.... that is basically what he is boasting about... read his posts... I am generally a non-judgmental person.. in that I will chose to try and see the good in people... that is why I sought clarification.. cause I thought I had obviously read his post wrong.... what is sad.. is I didn't... he actually thinks it is OK to seek revenge for something.. which is a persons right to do i.e. block and abusive emailer...

... don't think that makes me a hypocrite.. far from it.. that makes me a person who will speak out if I think someone is clearly wrong.. particularly where they are ACTUALLY boasting about their reprehensible behaviour ...

P.s.. I am not giving out to you.. .just can't believe people are entertaining this nitwit


No, of course, I'm not saying anything other than pretty much what you have said. Just because I take a different approach to you, doesn't make it wrong. As you will see from my penultimate post, I have gleaned further clarity from his further postings and those from others....

Where then is the problem? And where did I ever suggest you were a hypocrite?? confused I don't believe that could even remotely be deduced from my posts....??
confused





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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:22 PM CST
slickness wrote:
I posted a thread about being blocked by a user on this site after a rude email. Now that I have three email addresses, I can create a new account and FFF with them. I never get mad, just even. Block this fool!!!!


You're 60 years old?

confused





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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:23 PM CST
roseofsharon wrote:
No, of course, I'm not saying anything other than pretty much what you have said. Just because I take a different approach to you, doesn't make it wrong. As you will see from my penultimate post, I have gleaned further clarity from his further postings and those from others....

Where then is the problem? And where did I ever suggest you were a hypocrite?? I don't believe that could even remotely be deduced from my posts....??


Sorry Rose... admittedly that was and interpretation too far.. just hate that type of person.... sigh so kind of over-reacted

:handshake





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roseofsharon
Casa Felice, Southampton, England UK
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:30 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
Sorry Rose... admittedly that was and interpretation too far.. just hate that type of person.... so kind of over-reacted

:


Its okay, although very gracious of you, there is really no need to apologise. I am only too aware that misinterpretations are all too easy via a medium such as this.

Yes, there do seem to be some rather unsavoury traits displayed here, now that I am clearer on the situation and, moreover, the OP's intentions.

No probs... its cool..!! cheers





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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:30 PM CST
slickness wrote:
I posted a thread about being blocked by a user on this site after a rude email. Now that I have three email addresses, I can create a new account and FFF with them. I never get mad, just even. Block this fool!!!!



I don't agree with that no....that makes you no better than they are...one blocked e-mail so what...there are already too many games in this place...don't add to them!!!!!!!!!


Personally I wouldn't waste my energy on a person I didn't know for such a lame reason!!!!!!!!!!






wine





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slickness
auburn, California USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:34 PM CST
How bout I take the French stance, I surrender, nitwit, feel sorry for me, good deal, name calling and most don't have a clue who I am. Like your freedom, did the french provide it???? The USA was at the beckon call around Europe and now the world. I don't necessarily agree with being world paeace keeprs but the stance I take is not wavering, call me nitwit, be sorry for me, I will and always will stand my ground to anyone. You want to let people abuse you, go for it, bawk bawk bawk.





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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:40 PM CST
slickness wrote:
How bout I take the French stance, I surrender, nitwit, feel sorry for me, good deal, name calling and most don't have a clue who I am. Like your freedom, did the french provide it???? The USA was at the beckon call around Europe and now the world. I don't necessarily agree with being world paeace keeprs but the stance I take is not wavering, call me nitwit, be sorry for me, I will and always will stand my ground to anyone. You want to let people abuse you, go for it, bawk bawk bawk.


au contraire mon amie.... I would simply BLOCK them... laugh

P.s.. from what I have seen... I don't WANT to ever have the misfortune of knowing you

cheers





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JuleeBeth
Sun Prairie, Wisconsin USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:42 PM CST
yawn So sad.














lips





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JuleeBeth
Sun Prairie, Wisconsin USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:44 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:

P.s.. from what I have seen... I don't WANT to ever have the misfortune of knowing you



AMEN sister!! cheers








lips





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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
I think revenge is sad, really doesn't show you in the best light. wine





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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:46 PM CST
slickness wrote:
How bout I take the French stance, I surrender, nitwit, feel sorry for me, good deal, name calling and most don't have a clue who I am. Like your freedom, did the french provide it???? The USA was at the beckon call around Europe and now the world. I don't necessarily agree with being world paeace keeprs but the stance I take is not wavering, call me nitwit, be sorry for me, I will and always will stand my ground to anyone. You want to let people abuse you, go for it, bawk bawk bawk.


Standing your ground and playing games to fool with somebody's mind are 2 different things...normally when someone stands their ground...there is something to stand against...being blocked is hardly an issue to take a stand against....it happens all the time and is hardly worth worrying about!!!!!!!!!!


wine





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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:48 PM CST
slickness wrote:
How bout I take the French stance, I surrender, nitwit, feel sorry for me, good deal, name calling and most don't have a clue who I am. Like your freedom, did the french provide it???? The USA was at the beckon call around Europe and now the world. I don't necessarily agree with being world paeace keeprs but the stance I take is not wavering, call me nitwit, be sorry for me, I will and always will stand my ground to anyone. You want to let people abuse you, go for it, bawk bawk bawk.


Stand your ground against WHAT exactly... this big bad scary woman who blocked you for being rude to her... get with the program.. or get help.. sigh

Right that's it!! I don't care anymore.. if a person is going to spend their life all bitter and twisted, then so be it..... its a pity.. life isn't a rehearsal.. on your death bed.. u won't rejoice all the wonderful nasty moments you have had or delight on the 'revenge' you have achieved.. you will most likely lament at all the days you spent angry instead of enjoying life and its simple pleasures.. sigh





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roseofsharon
Casa Felice, Southampton, England UK
Posted: May 19, 2008, 3:52 PM CST
Sorry, I really don't think I can justify contributing any further to this thread being kept at the top of the Forums...... its distasteful and it needs to sink...!!

Ciao.... wave





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slickness
auburn, California USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 5:30 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
au contraire mon amie.... I would simply BLOCK them...

P.s.. from what I have seen... I don't WANT to ever have the misfortune of knowing you


No worries you won't.





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slickness
auburn, California USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 5:33 PM CST
JuleeBeth wrote:
AMEN sister!!


You either, bawk bawk bawk, my STANCE is to not take any shit from anyone, no matter who. If that is a hard concept to swallow so be it. dON'T MAKE AN ASSUMPTION i WAS RUDE TO SOMEONE AND THEN ASSASSINATE MY CHARACTER BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE PROOF, YOU DON'T HAVE FACTS AND YOU'RE TALKING WITH NO KNOWLEDGE.





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mindfful
--, Missouri USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 5:36 PM CST
any conversation w/ some ppl is an offense and they seek revenge

this guy is one of em

plus this is a new member unfamiliar but showed up here angry from the get-what can ya do?

he is gone kamikaze even by starting this thread
im guessing he isnt aware of the concept of moderators?

i didnt block him
thot about it
decided it was better to ignore
so i wonder who the lucky member isconfused





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mindfful
--, Missouri USA
Posted: May 19, 2008, 5:38 PM CST
besides i dont find in my opinion and contact anyway so far
this member will be 'slick' enuf to go undetected for long
under another screenname







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SatelliteServer
somewhere Canada
Posted: May 19, 2008, 5:56 PM CST
I usualy try to keep away from online Scrapes..typing





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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: May 19, 2008, 6:24 PM CST
slickness wrote:
I posted a thread about being blocked by a user on this site after a rude email. Now that I have three email addresses, I can create a new account and FFF with them. I never get mad, just even. Block this fool!!!!
So u have multiple profiles on CS? Interesting.





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