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Stop doing the romantic things that he did to "win your heart?"

Seems when the guys are "on the hunt" or "on the mission" to win the lady's heart, he will do all sorts of crazy things to get her attention, then once the "prize" is won, he quits trying.

Which part of "Men, We will want to be Romanced the rest of our lives" does a man not get???

Men want the physically intimacy, but forget what it took in the first place to talk us into it

Women don't lose interest in sex, just are waiting for the men to realize we enjoy the chase as much as they did from the start

JMO...Peaches

I am so glad you added JMO!!

That's the story of my last marriage

I explained to him what I needed, but he told me. "We have a good thing going here (meaning the domestic setup), why would you want to leave?"

Try this one on for size!!






Complimentary “Put Another Log on the Fire - Tompall Glaser” Ringtone

Put another log on the fire.
Cook me up some bacon and some beans.
And go out to the car and change the tyre.
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans.
Come on, baby, you can fill my pipe,
And then go fetch my slippers.
And boil me up another pot of tea.
Then put another log on the fire, babe,
And come and tell me why you're leaving me.

Now don't I let you wash the car on Sunday?
Don't I warn you when you're gettin fat?
Ain't I a-gonna take you fishin' with me someday?
Well, a man can't love a woman more than that.
Ain't I always nice to your kid sister?
Don't I take her driving every night?
So, sit here at my feet 'cos I like you when you're sweet,
And you know it ain't feminine to fight.

So, put another log on the fire.
Cook me up some bacon and some beans.
Go out to the car and lift it up and change the tyre.
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans.
Come on, baby, you can fill my pipe,
And then go fetch my slippers.
And boil me up another pot of tea.
Then put another log on the fire, babe,
And come and tell me why you're leaving me.

Okay Ship...wasn't summing up men all in one group, cause I'm smart enough to know this goes both ways...women do the same...just looking to get some feedback and some ideas on this subject...just for fun reading...nothing more

Yep...I know exactly what you're saying

Perhaps everybody gets too comfortable for their own good...after a relationship gets into a routine

My ex said to me 'I have you now, i don't have to try anymore!' the divorce followed quite quickly after that

haha yeah..

I think things become very boring if there is no effort... Once the effort stops, it's a down hill slide for one.. or both of you. imo

Like I've said somewhere here before ..

A relationship is like a garden.. if you don't tend to it and make and effort with it.. it just falls apart doesn't it. .. and who wants a crappy garden.


My garden is fecked!

My bench is broken .. some of my garden lights are buggered.. and I STILL haven't put up my new bamboo lights!

Hi Joanie

easy to take something for granted when you have, and realize when it's too late and you have lost it

That would be the formula around here if Earl ever was senile enough to say it...he can think it, but saying is would be fatal.....

haha I had BF like that.. he thought that was it then.. snagged and reeled in.

But I have the attention span of a gnat.. and ended up boring me to death.

Works both ways

haha yeah my husband was like that.. he thought I was the bloody bee knees AFTER we got divorced..

Helloo Tufty... yep it does.

stupid thing is he has spent the last 4 yrs trying to get me back . Dumb or what !

hellooo you i agree it does, relationship's need to be worked at by both

hahaha.. ya snoooze ya looooze

Ello Claayer

Ello Morgan


You need us to keep the spark well and truly alight, so the good ol flames of lust a keep a leaping.........


and we need you to still make the effort of looking like the foxyist fox that ever foxed a cunning fox and to keep on whispering those ever so enticing sweet nothings.....

Both ways or one hits the highway.......

haha yeah.. that's it!

For most men it's all about the chase/hunt. Once it's over....it's over. Women can be the same way too. Once they got their man, they forget all the things they did to attract him. We all seem fall into "comfortable" mode. It takes two to really keep a marriage going these days.