Posted: May 27, 2008, 10:20 PM CST
RillyNiceGuy wrote:Even as a kid I found that looks do not mean a thing as far as the kind of person another would like to choose as a loved one. You can find knock down pretty ladies and very sweet personalities but not often both in the same preson. You can find combinations in degrees but what people look for is not found often. If this is found, the person is already married.
I look for personality. I don't care how pretty she may be, if she does not have the right stuff inside.......gone!
It is like a car, if it runs good and is plain or ugly.......good!
If it is decked out with all the best and will never run.......it ain't worth crap!It is getting hard to fine a truly sweet personality, that knows what is truly important if like. Very very hard!
My mother thought my fabulous boyfriend was ugly. I thought he was artistic. (Coolest, best looking Datsun 260z, on the planet! Hand-dyed seat-covers.) Best dates, he was so nice to my parents. We had great sex. He told me he was insecure and wanted to get married. Whoa! So much for best boyfriend, ever.
Dated him when I was 14-16. I still adored him, at 16. We stayed in touch, dated, he was my fave. I never told him. He got married when I was 17-18. I was heart-broken. He was tired of married life, when I was 24. He wanted an affair. My soul was injured and I ran.
I told him I loved him when I was 17. He wanted a mate. I wanted him to be happy. He made a choice. I talked to him years later. He came on to me. Then, I saw him as ugly. Mom was right!