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So how many of us have come across the potential mate/date who seemed very interested until either you straight up told them "I'm very experienced sexually" or they figured it out themselves?

For those with lots of ummm..."history": how much do you tell?

And for those of you who have been intimidated by someone with more carnal knowledge than you, what made you feel this way?

I'll reply with the truth when asked...
other than that, I'm pretty "private"...

And no, I don't feel intimidated, everyone has a past...

I don't get intimated

And as for my skills, It's for me to know and for them to find out

I don't have that much, so it's never been a problem.

Kidding, but anybody at our age who hasn't had a few partners, well I'd have to wonder about them. If someone's interested, and that bothers them, I'd just have to think they're not the right one for me.

Well Sometimes the Past will creep up..but when you do tell ur significant sometimes they view you different..and thinking it may happend as well..if its to do with drugs..dating many women...so on...My man hides nothing..and has been through alot..but as i say past is the past...and sometimes it will/have ruin relationships...

I meant INTIMIDATED......damn typos

Me too...I see no need to hide my past from anyone....it's made me who I am today....

I don't think I would like someone who expected me to explain all the intimate details of my life right at the beginning. Getting to know someone slowly, you get to know what kind of person they are, or you hope you do. I would not be interested in someone who was judgemental, and if someone expected to talk about intimacy or be intimate before I'd gotten to know him, two red lights would go off--I would think they were weighing and measuring me, judging me, and I would think they were moving too fast, i.e., agressive.

Little by little I reveal.....all at once I show

I don't get your first question? Are you saying that a woman would lose interest if I demonstrated off the charts love making skills? If so, never....it only made them want to see use me more...

I think that sex comes naturally and me personally I don't want to know about their past experiences. I only care about the experience that me and the potential mate will have.

If they have more experience that also might be a good thing maybe they can share something I don't know

after they get done with all that screaming and moaning, their voices are usually too hoarse to ask any questions. The gratefullness in their eyes says it all. I wouldn't be with a man who would ask me such questions as it is none of his business. Never met a guy with mor carnal knowledge than I-equal maybe, but never more.

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That pretty much sums up my answer...

If was are talking strictly sexual partners then that information is between you and your potential mate....if you want to share it. The choice to accept it puts the ball back in thier court. I choose not to go into any sexual details about past loves. Those moments are private. General information is fine.

Yep.... I think that pretty much hits the spot....!!

I have had only a small number of long term relationships and a couple of mid term ones... and was never into the one night stand thing... so it has never been a problem really....

My past isn't important, nor my knowledge, its just part of me and i come as a lump package, not that i am a box of food or something to be picked up at the convenience store, if you know what i mean.

Right as usual, Bev!

ten on ten.....

same...

Depends on who's asking.

Not much to tell anyway.