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No skeletons??????

When I first someone and that's the most important thing or all they want to talk about - I don't think that they are truly that interested in getting to know me. As well - its really none of their business because until we've spent some time together - really they're still a stranger to me. Why would I want to be giving out information about my private life to a complete stranger?

I think that there's a time to share things .......... but as you are comfortable and the trust is built within the relationship. As well - do we need to share everything - hhm ... I don't think so.

If a man wanted to tell me all about his past partners and experiences, I'd feel it was way too much information...

No skeletons.


I guess at my age it would be expected but I was never into the conquest and debautchery, knotches on the bedpost thing.

Will that be held against me?

mmmm ,

what a question! really!

To answer straightforward, i would answer ANY kind of question i was asked but i wouldnt have any kind of impulse to start talking about my past experiances on my own.

On the other person's side, how much does it really matter?
The only real significance of the number of partners my girlfriend has had exists only if it takes the form of (a) character trait(s) of hers. If it becomes entwined in her personality somehow. And this is something i would have noticed anyway, whithout having to know about this specific detail. You see, i believe i can tell what sort of a person she is whithout having to know this detail, because if she has had a lot of intercourse with the opposite sex for the wrong reasons, it will show in her personality.

Everyone has past and to be honest i would rather be with a man that is sexually experienced.

If i was asked a specific question i may answer depending how serious the relationship was. But would

automatically give them a C.V.

Aaah meant to say would NOT give them a C.V.

Hi Morgan

What's a C.V.?

Hi Harry it's something you when applying for jobs, giving work history, special skills you may , previous experience etc

I have no skeletons either!

Not a soul can expect you to be a virgin at my age, except for some man of the cloth.....maybe.

My life is my life and anyone can ask me about it, I have absolutely nothing to hide. I find converstaions about other's past somewhat interesting. The thing is, some people just can't handle the truth and a person's history. If that is the case, that tells me a lot and indicates to me that I probably do not want to be with them. We're adults so deal with it! History is history and is gone. Move forward and experience life........Rock on brothers and sisters........

Well I have PLENTY of work history. Maybe even too much.

how about special skills ???

Maybe.


Hi Aries

Hiya Kid