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Dating after 30

Florida dating
Shad0cat
Kissimmee, Florida USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:27 PM CST
I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
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tufty
Chelmsford, England UK
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:30 PM CST
You look FINE

Mind you I don't suppose that helps coming from an old fart rolling on the floor laughing
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uk_man_31
norwich, England UK
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:32 PM CST
hey in my opinion its b*llox I dont take age into account if theres a click theres a click
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gtbulldog2
Towson, Maryland USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:36 PM CST
Shad0cat wrote:
I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
It's in the Eye of the Beholder not the age!!!!!!
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tufty
Chelmsford, England UK
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:37 PM CST
gtbulldog2 wrote:
It's in the Eye of the Beholder not the age!!!!!!



Or in some cases the eye of the beer holder............


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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:38 PM CST
I guess I'm up shit creek without a paddle. crying
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joanie04984
North Woods, Maine USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:38 PM CST
Shad0cat wrote:
I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.


At 32, you still have a great chance of finding men who would be happy to date you.

Take it from me, the older you get, the worse it gets rolling on the floor laughing

Older men want to date younger women. Younger men want younger women or women their age.

Make hay while the sun shines thumbs up
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Tennessee personals
dcj22
Manchester, Tennessee USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:42 PM CST
Thats BS, I've been having more fun in my 30's and 40's than I did in my 20's!!!

And I had a pretty damn good time in my 20's! laugh
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Tennessee personals
dcj22
Manchester, Tennessee USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 12:42 PM CST
tufty wrote:
Or in some cases the eye of the beer holder............


You always make me laugh, Tufty!! laugh
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England dating
tufty
Chelmsford, England UK
Posted: May 21, 2008, 1:04 PM CST
dcj22 wrote:
You always make me laugh, Tufty!!


Glad to hear it!
Your cheery grin is always infectious and spreads to this side of the pond grin
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:09 PM CST
Shad0cat wrote:
I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.


Nonsense. Your last boyfriend is just confused. I dig women in their 40's, 30's and 20's. I see no differences, only beauty....I won't mention what else I seewink devil Gosh I'm really bad.

To be honest, I like women in their mid 30's the most.
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:12 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
Nonsense. Your last boyfriend is just confused. I dig women in their 40's, 30's and 20's. I see no differences, only beauty....I won't mention what else I see Gosh I'm really bad.

To be honest, I like women in their mid 30's the most.


Sucks to be me then....lol I'm going to be 49 in June.
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RobbieM
Hertford, England UK
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:15 PM CST
Shad0cat wrote:
I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.


Jesus, do you really believe that? My god you must have been mixing with some people more shallow than a scrape in the ground.

Don't let other people adversely affect your life or talk to you in such a way.Basically people like that are vermin and stay well clear of them.

Proof indeed the world has gone mad when 32 is considered over the hill.
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Criseyda1382
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:17 PM CST
Try being in your mid 30's and having two kids....I'm just about ready to give up lol
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:17 PM CST
hrt4lse wrote:
Sucks to be me then....lol I'm going to be 49 in June.


Hey, I said 40's as well. And you do look like a young 48. I dated a 45 year old last year if it makes you feel better hrt4. Oh boy, the raging sexual desires 40 year olds havedevil smitten
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Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:19 PM CST
Shad0cat wrote:
but aren't these figures just a little extreme?






Yes, I'd say so...



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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:20 PM CST
I might as well give up now then blues
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:20 PM CST
Hey ShadOcat, are you a real redheadhmmm day dream
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:20 PM CST
hrt4lse wrote:
Sucks to be me then....lol I'm going to be 49 in June.
rolling on the floor laughing me will be 44 in 2 months and will be getting married this year..Life goes on until ur dear..nothing is impossible..
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 21, 2008, 3:21 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
me will be 44 in 2 months and will be getting married this year..Life goes on until ur dear..nothing is impossible..
DeadD'oh!
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