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Not that it matters,but I've done quite a few POWERLIFTING competitions.


REALLY.......it's no biggie.

I've got to say that its pretty ridiculous some of the pictures I've seen. Have to wonder if these people have any self-respect at moments. If it was an "adult" site - then I could understand it - but truly, most should keep their clothes on as its usually not very flattering. Then they wonder why they are not taken seriously - turn on your brain and think about it.

Personally - I'd rather unwrap the gift myself (and not have it seen before by a million other people). To me its part of the excitement and anticipation of imagining what it will like when you are intimate. How that person will feel to my touch, how their skin will look, do they have hair on their chest or are they hairless) ...... its all about discovery and exploration. Hard to do that when the whole package has been revealed.

Actually, very cool

Thank you....I enjoy the sport alot,just like someone ebjoys hockey,football,or baseball.

couldnt agree more.... i think its supposed to make them look cool... if only they knew... lol... when i see one of those pics i just laugh.... if they have to pose to get attention doesnt say a lot for them does it..... Question is if they are that sexy why arent all the women falling all over them .... hmmmm

Is it a turn off then, guys posing without their shirts, in bathing suits,or sexy poses? Do you skip these guys altogether? If they mail or flower you, do you ignore them cause of the picture?

Depends on the mail but to be honest it would put me off.... someone who needs to show themselves off like that to attract women is a bit silly to me.... am sure there are some nice guys out there who think its the right thing to do that its what women want but it puts me off .. how about you..............good morning by the way lol...

Morning bluebelle

Puts me off .... I like a good looking man, of course, but I go for brains and sense of humor....To my mind, a guy with a good brain doesn't try to sell himself body first...he's got more sense of his own dignity...that's how I feel about how I present myself, and I guess I look for the same in a man.

its just like asking, why would a man get a 'A LADY OF THE NIGHT' for a wife.

but for nude men chests,

Runs to put down my so called sexy pose pic down

there was one pic i saw of a woman in her 40's wearing a skirt and a bra, but she did say she was looking for love from men all over the world, so im sure got the attention she is seeking .

Well, I do think some people are very visually inspired and rather than having a problem with the posing and flesh exposure, find it sexy, sensual and romantic. Some men will marry women who have lived a very free sexual life because it doesn't bother them, they love the woman, and that is all that matters. Probably both these groups are pretty small minorities...don't know though, just guessing and speculating...something i don't like to do much...

thanks for your comments and input Newbeginning

I totally agree....and if i may say very well put....to me its all about dignity and self worth ... dont get me wrong if a guy is on here looking for a one night stand thats ok thats his thing..let him at it..... but if he is seriosly looking to meet someone who is fun and decent ... PUT THE SHIRT BACK ON ..lol...

The picture I see now is beautiful, adorable, not at all what I was refering to.

Dont be silly your pic is great.... and as portiea says not all all what we are on about...

i guess i should put it back up.
hahahaa
you people saw it?