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1,2,3 lover at the same time!

Bloody hell.. I can only just manage the brain power to handle ONE!

The problem is i know i don't want to hurt #1 feelings i had stayed with him because of pity he had been trough a divorce and his ex wife took everything. i don't want to hurt his feelings like #3 did to me i am wondering if i am playing the game that # 3 was playing with me 2 years ago.

Honey, you'll never be happy -- nor are you doing anyone any favors -- by staying with him out of pity. You're denying both of you the happiness that you might have with someone completely committed to a relationship.

hope you'll never learn to have 2 it's so hard to handdle and affect my morality.....good luck

you can't build a life on feeling sorry for someone, he clearly doesn't appreciate it by the way he treats you ! I am not being nasty to you but sometimes you have to do what is right for you or be dicated to all your life. I spent 16yrs with someone i didn't even like because i felt sorry for them, you can't get that time back. Be strong and take control of your own life .

i know i've made a bad choice but i was kicked out of my place and didn't know where to go he took pity of me and i did to him.
i know that pity don't lead no where and i don't feel and never felt that connection with him and never felt that i would past the rest of my life with him either.

in revenge i did felt it with # 3 that is the thing i miss so much.

i think there is only one thing i am looking for that is above all of everything else and that makes me really fall in love with a person

it's security

if i don't have it i don't jump!

and i can understand all that and how lonely and frightening it feels

but don't make the same mistake i did. You are young and have your whole life, look for an apartment

that you can share with a girl, give you chance to make new friends, the support you need and you

won't be alone. Get out and change things while you can. Only you can do it, but if you want to you can

change your life.

i will soon but you'll have to excuse me if i don't come here anymore because i won't have money for internet and i don't think it's a place to meet your lover here i don't mean you guy's are all bad people it's just a robot thing for me love is so platonic here.it's not real, it's easy to say alot of thing that is not true and that can hurt alot when the cat came out of the sack. so i'll wrote want i want in my life save money go rent a appartement of my own dump # 1 # 2 forgot # 3 even if i know he's losing someone good and look for # 4

Pick number 4 - ME!

Good Luck

Maybe you need a #4 to simplify things here....

thank you! for your advice everyone.

yes i think so but now where he is!

*jumps up and down wildly*


I'm here! I'm here!

if you have alot of security to give me ------
then i'll pick you

So what do you really want to do valleygirl? Sounds like the man you never met has the edge. Your coworker sounds like a good match for you. Drop number one.
Just follow your heart

I agree..

Nope, but I can hire a company. Force4Security are doing a deal at the minute.

my co-worker is way too old he is my mom age 54 years old and for # 3 i had enough with him he don't reply to my e-mails never said thank you for the gift i've sent him or for his son and yes eventually i will dump my #1

Oh dear!