What is a High Maintenance Woman?

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Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Portiea: Well then I am definitely high maintenance.



I'm low..thank god...less costly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Portiea Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Lagoona22: Ok Portia....how about giving me your opinion??....what do you think makes a woman high-maintenance? ....and how long have you been one??.....



OMG just don't know where to begin, six of one and half dozen of the other. wink

You would never be able to keep up with me, but you would want to.smile



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
I think the deciding factor in wether a man or a woman turns out to be a high-maintenance type of personality is to a large degree a factor of their childhood and upbringing....tell me what kinda childhood you had, and what types of men you go for, and I'll can make a good guess wether u are high-maintenance or not....

Please call my secretary for an appointment...


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friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: I'm low..thank god...less costly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: A woman who needs a lot of maintenance done on her car!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I could and have done that.dancing
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada


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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Hmmm.. when it comes to 'stuff' I think I'm fairly low maintenance..

But when it comes to 'Mind stimulation' .. I think I'm probably fairly high maintenance. laugh
roseofsharon: No idea.... but I suspect its a woman who expects a fella to make just a little bit of effort??!!


Wot sort of effort?confused

Like bringing their own jar of peanut butter? devil

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Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Bingo...perfect match!!....I can just see you and I....two hugely high-maintenance minds stimulating the heck out of one another on the lounge carpet....!!!...sweat pouring from every brain cell.....god, what a horrible sight!!....wow


Claayer: Hmmm.. when it comes to 'stuff' I think I'm fairly low maintenance..

But when it comes to 'Mind stimulation' .. I think I'm probably fairly high maintenance.



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
No argument casey...it's a question of degree....


mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
I think it's what people mean when they use the word "needy".....


mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Lagoona22: Bingo...perfect match!!....I can just see you and I....two hugely high-maintenance minds stimulating the heck out of one another on the lounge carpet....!!!...sweat pouring from every brain cell.....god, what a horrible sight!!....



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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.


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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.
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mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Lagoona22: I think it's what people mean when they use the word "needy".....


What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.

There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)handshake



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.

There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
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riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.

There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)


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Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Very noble sentiments indeed. But the theme of the thread was "high-maintenance", which by definition means "higher-than-normal". I think that all of us would agree with your position on supporting a partner with needs, but I think what we are talking about here are EXCESSIVE needs...and unrealistic expectations, manipulation and so forth.....ask Portia...it's her thread....


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mbcasey: What is wrong with needy? Maybe it is me but I believe we are put here to help each other. If you are in love with someone, needy becomes a spouses responsibility.

There are all kinds of people in the world and we are so complex. One person's needs are another person's necessities. There are strong people and weak people. I guess I am against the Darwin principle of strongest survives when it comes to mankind (above the genetic sense)
soulmateTWS Happy in, Alabama USA
mbcasey: I don't understand the question or premise of high maintenance.

If I am in love with a woman who needs emotional support, I am there for her. If she needs monetary things to help make her life better, I would give it to her. I don't call these things maintenance...I call it caring, compassionate and understanding.



Just my opinion....I think... maybe... mbcasey is the only one that seems to be in a positive mind frame...he sees the glass as half full, instead of being pessimistic...
professor Negativity breeds negativity...conversing
When he's ready to enter into a relationship again...the woman he chooses will be a lucky woman...he's a very insightful man...conversing




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