Wylde
Canberra, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 24, 2008, 4:32 PM CST
Don't stress about it 'misssuzyq'. Intuition suggests the problem lies with the men to whom you might be superficially attracted, and in the instances you quoted, those men who are attracted superficially to you.
There's no simple analogy. "Opposites" and "likes" neither attract universally nor distract unconditionally. It's not really like junior school physics.
Humans experience higher, complex emotions. Or at least they should.
Sometimes visual and other immediate sensory things excite us, causing temporary failure of proper perception, judgment, reason. It's easy to dismiss this as 'animal sex'. Sometimes there's a poor mix of dishonesty too.
My intuition? Ok, I'd guess the two males you mention were confronted by you, your intelligence. Not that you were deliberately dominant, but they were perhaps inhibited, able only to show a facade, pretence of personality. And this was something they could not sustain over a longer period. No match is perfect, but we each deserve something that promises inspiration, love, harmony. Those males were obviously not a good match for you.
Inevitably they trailed away, were caught up with someone else, some female more their level of like and dislike.
The fault was not with you.
Nor is it with us males in general.
You are a selective woman. You deserve better. You shall have it.
Of course, I could have taken the much easier route by answering with the chestnut: ' "What's up with men?' I give up..! Tell me the answer...!" '
Be patient just a little while longer. It will be worth the wait.
Good luck,
- W
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