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Girls, what if the love of your life can't see that you were meant to be?

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Girls, what if the love of your life can't see that you were meant to be?

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:06 AM CST
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?

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freespirit22
kildare, Kildare Ireland
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:09 AM CST
cristina wrote:
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?


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He is blind, I would move on to some1 who could see!!!cheering
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allready
portland, Oregon USA
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:09 AM CST
cristina wrote:
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?
Oh this is a touchy subject. If you do the wrong thing you will lose him forever. We need special help on this question.help help help
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:10 AM CST
freespirit22 wrote:
He is blind, I would move on to some1 who could see!!!


what if you can't feel the same passion with anyone else?wave
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melody11
Somewhere Spain
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:10 AM CST
cristina wrote:
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?


you'll frighten the hell out of him!!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:11 AM CST
cristina wrote:
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?


hahah.. no... I would just leave him to get on with it. .

You can't make someone feel the same way can you.



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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:12 AM CST
allready wrote:
Oh this is a touchy subject. If you do the wrong thing you will lose him forever. We need special help on this question.


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go get it thendancing banana dancing banana
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:13 AM CST
cristina wrote:
what if you can't feel the same passion with anyone else?


Then you have to make do...


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If you can't be with the one you love.. love the one your with. listen to music



As Luther Vandross says. laugh
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valleygirl
ottawa Canada
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:13 AM CST
allready wrote:
Oh this is a touchy subject. If you do the wrong thing you will lose him forever. We need special help on this question.


yeah and what if it was meant to be for some reason that no one else know's only god know the truth to well.
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allready
portland, Oregon USA
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:14 AM CST
Oh cristina I have read alot of your forums, You are so smart you know the answer to this question you just need to here it from someone else. You are not wanted to believe what your mind is telling you. Listen to your heart honey it will tell you what you need to do.heart beating
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freespirit22
kildare, Kildare Ireland
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:15 AM CST
cristina wrote:
what if you can't feel the same passion with anyone else?


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Trust me , you can feel passion with some1 that is passionate about you, give time , time , you will see , loads more fish in the sea. They cant be all deaf, blind and stupid
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tufty
Chelmsford, Essex, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:15 AM CST
cristina wrote:
we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?



Mu Mu Mu Mu Married


uh oh!
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:16 AM CST
melody11 wrote:
you'll frighten the hell out of him!!


What if he knows that he aint gonna get it unless he takes you seriously? So, he knows you are the serious type, you've already had a great time together, it's proven that yes...you are just fine and he really is aware of how wonderful you look together, this is why he can't let go for years and keeps checking if you are still there..not engaged!

So?confused

Tell him that someone is about to engage you and see what happens?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:18 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Then you have to make do ...
If you can't be with the one you love.. love the one your with.
As Luther Vandross says.


Good onelaugh

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:18 AM CST
cristina wrote:
What if he knows that he aint gonna get it unless he takes you seriously? So, he knows you are the serious type, you've already had a great time together, it's proven that yes...you are just fine and he really is aware of how wonderful you look together, this is why he can't let go for years and keeps checking if you are still there..not engaged!

So?

Tell him that someone is about to engage you and see what happens?


Looking wonderful together.. is not the same as being wonderful together.

My ex husband and I used to look wonderful together.. (so I'm told)..

But he used to beat the sh*t out of me. dunno


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Why am I laughing? confused


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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:19 AM CST
allready wrote:
Oh cristina I have read alot of your forums, You are so smart you know the answer to this question you just need to here it from someone else. You are not wanted to believe what your mind is telling you. Listen to your heart honey it will tell you what you need to do.


but hearts aren't smart honeyblushing wink

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:20 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Looking wonderful together.. is not the same as being wonderful together.

My ex husband and I used to look wonderful together .. (so I'm told)..

But he used to beat the sh*t out of me.

Why am I laughing?


I mean being wonderful togetherhug
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:21 AM CST
cristina wrote:
but hearts aren't smart honey

Thanks


Thats right... hearts are stupid.. they have minds of their own!..

Mine is very badly behaved.. it NEVER does what my head tells it too.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:21 AM CST
cristina wrote:
I mean being wonderful together


Oh Oops.. sorry.. blushing hug
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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:21 AM CST
cristina wrote:
We girls always love when they approach us.
What if you see that the one you love is constantly neglecting that you could be a great couple, that you really go along together, that there is a great passion going on...he is just stubborn, he just thinks he can have is time before getting engaged.
Imagine he is always around your life, always throwing hints about how much you mean to him but still he "runs" because he's not prepared...

Would you say: "look, i think we should try, we should get married cause you are just wasting our time"?


I don't know about the "love" of my life..... but the "lust" of my life...??!! smitten I do need to help him with some visual impairment, yes. I was thinking stronger glasses.... but only in a darkened room, of course!!
uh oh!

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