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still would like some of the guys to be honest, so if they have a fantasy or a dream about another woman is that cheating ?

Ditto.

Help?????

Single here???

But one cannot control partners mind ,dreams???


So one wants to control all????????mind body an soul??


Does not will not happen?


Dreams fantasy free to me........




No one has control in any relationship re or sureal!

Control

Fantasy is in the imagination and is normal..

But once you talk or write to that person about it you have crossed the line.

That is the biggest problem, most people don't care if they cross the line..

Cheating is cheating no matter what color you paint it.

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1. imagination, esp. when extravagant and unrestrained.
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acting on it is cheating.

Yep I would consider that cheating.

Cheating is cheating what ever else you want to label it as, surely.

Fantasy for me at the moment it being able to jump in the car, rush off anywhere i want, eat a chocolate bar and walk about in the sun without being tired,aching or getting a migraine.

In fact can i get an upgrade to a nice day out, good weather, peace and quiet, no hostility, good food and then passing out pain free with a smile on my face.

God i fancy a bag of crisps now

I guess the best question to ask would be how would you feel if you opened your partners email and read his emails to an internet woman sending each other fantasies and sexual letters...if this doesn't bother you I guess you have your answer.

I'll let you know when I find one.

I reakon a fantasy has no intent.

If you form any kind of relationsip, the fantasy is no longer a fantasy and has deceptive motives.....

In other words no good can really come out of these actions.

Idont believe it is cheating if u dream about it, I believe a person should be free to dream as they wish, after all dreams are a means of setting the soul free

fantasies are not cheating...acting on them is!!

so if you were married and you had a fantasy about talking sexy to another woman on line and you full filled your fantasy, and nothing more would you say you cheated on your wife ?

Of course its Cheating..If you are thinking about another then the one you are with..its CHEATING

yes I agree.

Yes! I would consider it cheating if you consider it as an affair. If you are on a site just to have e-mail pals that is a different story but only if you tell your mate about it and they don't have a problem with it in my opinion.

No that wasn't cheating. I believe most people have fantasies. The marriage bed would be desolate with out them....JMO, of course

I just wish that more of the guys would reply to this are they running scarred?

I appreciate your honesty.

When i am in a relationship i have never fantasize about another..I do think if i did..I would say that is cheating..JMO