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****If you stopped smoking, I'd date and possibly even marry you...






sorry....you'll never get me that way!!!

I would not tell him he could not smoke just not in the house where I can smell it as I am alergic to smoke.

I once told my mother she had to go on the balcony or the stairwell if she wanted to smoke....she became insuted!!

That is just too bad, you have the right to not want smoke in your place and she should have understood that. I will tell people to go outside

I only date women who are "SMOKIN!!!"

Lose 30 pounds and then I'll sleep with you....that's my final offer....

Either accept a person "as is" or leave them alone.
Changes have to come from within, if a person is trying to make any changes to better themselves, then the best thing you can do as a person who cares about them, is to help, encourage (no critisims sp?) and support them.

excellent....Lass!!

I agree

That would be why I'm picking about who I meet to begin with, if they're a smoker, I don't even go there. I'm highly sensitive to cigarette, cigar & pipe smoke so it's better for me not to be around it at all, so I just plain ole don't get interested in someone who does.

I think everyone knows my opinion on smoking...

I have smoked from 16 to 26...

Never went back...

My boys dont like it either...

But my fiance does smoke and wants to quit...

But he will do that when/if he wants to...

You have to do it for urself and not for anyone else

Yes if you quit for someone else...it won't work anyway.....you have to want to do it and be ready to do it for you.....

I would consider another "IF" I could find one that has total "acceptance" of another... JMO

In the words of "Popeye, the sailor man", I is what I is..

Me too and I is a smoker.....

I like checking out profiles (even mine). I "think" we place the criteria we state based on how we are "feeling" at that time.

"FEELINGS", are not right or wrong, they just are..

I don't like ultimatums.

I do not like ultimatums either - would just say, no way take me as I am or not at all.

So many conditions on love that it's hard to know which ones to put on a prospective partner first.

No one I know will live in a dirty house, sleep with a dirty man/woman, put up with nose picking at the table, ball/ass/crotch scratching in public, someone who never flosses or flushes the toilet, farts out the latest tune, eats their nails,sets their family aside for football or beer or drugs or another woman/man, or gambling, shopaholics, alcoholics, kleptomaniacs, prescription pill poppers, snot inhalers/lickers/eaters, physical/mental disabilities, and fanatics.

Smoking is often just one of those things, no better or worse than a million other habits if they are willing to do it away from people it bothers.

The thing is that we can always find something to not put up with in people, no matter how good we think we are going to be at accepting the other person warts and all.

In the end, nobody's perfect.