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what are you talking about?

i cant follow
seem to be jumping the fence each side??

maybe im just not fully awake

all this talk from both men and women about whats natural and what if you love

there is a thing i discovered called discipline and self control

since i began using it ive had less wreckage in my life

period

we are not animals we are people
yes we have base instincts but people that let those run them and determine their choices and use them to justify stuff like promiscuity and worse-sorry i gotta call bullsit

im an adult
i have experienced the result repeatedly of not waiting
i wait because im not up for the emotional pain

i have great sex with myself and cant let it be any deciding factor in my life anymore-my days of 'casual sex' have passed

and im sorry but for me personally
anything outside a well developed full relationship with the hope of a future isnt a candidate for sex-yes i have loved people i havent gotten in bed with
and yes all commitments dont pan out

i can still have my own parameters for my choices

and its a given the sexual chemistry exists or we wouldnt have gotten anywhere near other depth...
so why worry about it? it will happen.
family is a good priority-and sex can become the sealant-
later
im not modeling sex in fron of my kid and then hoping to death she wont do it

thats ridiculous

how can i teach something i cant do

not arguing just saying

Three years.

You've got me beat!


Hey RW

It is like broadband......no waiting period any more
just "click" and go

...and up, up and away you goooooo! HeeHaah!

If you both are on the same plane, no one is getting hurt, no false motivation, then hell, tis the time to rock your world!

you can rock my world any time, lady

If I was straight and not gay, I sure would look you up. I love to fly, and having a skyguy would help with the price of tickets nowadays!

I hear you.....well, if you promise me a ride on the back of your bike, I'll see what I can do

For me, it takes a loooonnnnnnggggg time to feel comfortable in a relationship. Call me skittish or frigid or whatever the hell ya want but things have to be %100 pertinere for me to make that leap.

The shortest amount of time I've waited was the better part of a year.

how long will you wait for sex ? ::looks at watch::

15 minutes.. or I'm starting on my own..

I don't want to wait anymore, any takers?... oops, did I just say that?

haha

Morninn