Dirty sex talk - Turn on or turn off?

Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:40 PM CST

Bowie wrote:

If you are referring to my NOT GETTING ANY, then I will explain like this. I do not engage in meaningless sex. It doesn't do it for me. I need the emotional exchange as well. I can't speak for most men though.
I am not shy. I go after what I want. I'm just picky.
One night stands are not for me. If I thought having sex with someone I already know, would not hurt the relationship, then I would press on.

Okay, thanks for the frank answer....hope I didn't offend you.

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sweet1of2
Charleston USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:41 PM CST

mikeeemike wrote:

Do you get embarrassed, excited or turned off when someone talks dirty sex to you?

I used to date a girl who would ring me at work on my mobile and start talking about what she was going to do to me later that night.

It was both embarrassing (when you answered your phone during a meeting), but shit is was exciting to hear what she had planned, lost count how many times I had to leave work early.

Big BIG turn on!!

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Bowie
winter haven, Florida USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:44 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

Okay, thanks for the frank answer....hope I didn't offend you.

Not offended !

was my post a little frank? Didn't mean to cum off like that.

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magic_genie
New Castle, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:50 PM CST

Isnt the C word Caucasion? lol oh the other C word Cat....here kitty kitty...Erotica or dirty talk as some of you have coined it is to many woman well erotic....go figure...and as far as being in the office when that happens, i hope you have tissue handy.....achew.

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:50 PM CST

Bowie wrote:

Not offended !
was my post a little frank? Didn't mean to cum off like that.

Frank in a good way.....I just think, one reason I'm not in a relationship is cause I am shy, at least with men. And I think there are relationships that are not meaningless and one night stands that are also not 'we will be together forever' types either. I've been in a couple that were just nice (not the friends who sleep together thing, but romantic) but not complicated .... and I thought maybe it was easier for me to have that kind of thing...or at least non-shy people....

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 12:52 PM CST

Portiea wrote:

Frank in a good way.....I just think, one reason I'm not in a relationship is cause I am shy, at least with men. And I think there are relationships that are not meaningless and one night stands that are also not 'we will be together forever' types either. I've been in a couple that were just nice (not the friends who sleep together thing, but romantic) but not complicated .... and I thought maybe it was easier for me to have that kind of thing...or at least non-shy people....

OOPS big typo mistake there; I meant: easier for men to have that kind of thing...like someone but not get too deeply involved...

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 1:21 PM CST

Lagoona22 wrote:

Ohmagawd.....I feel an online course coming on....."sexy talk" is not about "my dick, my six-pack, my car, my job, my gym programme, my ego, andwhatImagonnado toyou".....if you are sitting there wondering what it IS about.....check out this link:

http://www. youmachobrainlesshelplessasshole.com

you are absolutely correct with this website to no where.

It's about her hair ,her eyes, the nape of her neck,the warm glow her charming smile provides,hungry eyes.Foot massages slowly leading up to erroneous zones.I won't go into further detail here.
What you are going to do with her when you get together.
Adjectives,think sexy adjectives.

Just a rough draft folks..Carry on now!

I cannot give away any more of my secrets.

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 1:22 PM CST

Bowie wrote:

Not offended !
was my post a little frank? Didn't mean to cum off like that.

Bowie cracks me up.

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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 1:51 PM CST

friendsfirst wrote:

Bowie cracks me up.

I thought he just couldn't spell...

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mikeeemike
Den Hague, Zuid-Holland Netherlands

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 2:51 PM CST

its amazing how many people find talking dirty to be embarrassing.

Out of the girlfriends I've had, only one has really enjoyed it, and got aroused, others have just been embarrassed.

Now, I talk dirty to myself and put myself to sleep

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eve1woman
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 3:17 PM CST

Big turn on

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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 3:22 PM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

all things in their place and all things in moderation! However, one word I find offensive in any situation is the C word. I will never use it and would immediately walk out on a woman that used it. JMO...of couse. I will probably be accused of being judgemental here...but!!

right there with you- i could never use that word and don't like anyone to. i cringed for the poor girl with that particular speech in 'the vagina monologues'!! otherwise, sexy ( maybe a wee bit dirty!) is better,

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diogenes
Longview, Texas USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 3:27 PM CST

Well, what if your religion won't let you talk dirty then what?

Oooooh, yeah! You like that big fat pilly packer in your cha cha!

Yeeeeaaaahhhh! Hump me like a naughty little hoochie coochie Mama!

Nah! It just doesn't work!

Gosh is probably gonna dang me to heck for writing that.

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 4:02 PM CST

KEEPS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPICEY AND HEALTHY AND CERTAINLY NOT BORING

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JuleeBeth
Sun Prairie, Wisconsin USA

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 5:25 PM CST

I usually blush but secretly love it.

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chloe21
bolton, Greater Manchester, England UK

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 5:30 PM CST

mikeeemike wrote:

Do you get embarrassed, excited or turned off when someone talks dirty sex to you?

I used to date a girl who would ring me at work on my mobile and start talking about what she was going to do to me later that night.

It was both embarrassing (when you answered your phone during a meeting), but shit is was exciting to hear what she had planned, lost count how many times I had to leave work early.

love it

more more more

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:23 PM CST

Am I to infer that "dirty sex talk" does not refer to a man jerking himself off using a woman as a recepticle, while degrading her with words used only in derogatory terms in arguements, to make her feel like a piece of crap?

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diogenes
Longview, Texas USA

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:24 PM CST

gingerb wrote:

Am I to infer that "dirty sex talk" does not refer to a man jerking himself off using a woman as a recepticle, while degrading her with words used only in derogatory terms in arguements, to make her feel like a piece of crap?

Golly you're such an upbeat lady!!!

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:26 PM CST

diogenes wrote:

Golly you're such an upbeat lady!!!

And I thought I was just asking a question.........

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diogenes
Longview, Texas USA

Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:31 PM CST

That's what one calls a loaded question.

No offense, but Golly Gee Willikers!

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