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Now i know i'm wiser. My 20's friends don't understand my designing of "him"...

exactly!!! what's the point??

arnt you married?????

Wiser? I would say I am wiser when I live to be 50 or 60.

then you are equivalent to an early teenager...take your time

I was married after knowing her for 8 months. I took my commitment very seriously. It lasted 20 years. Her infidelity was commitment breaker. Not sure what she was lacking. Our life was good til she went on a work trip.
She said she was just selfish, and thought she could get away with it.
Guess people have differences in what they think marriage is about. I came from a divorced couple, so I guess my opinion on marriage was engraved at an early age. I am a monogamous creature.
But what the f**k do I know?

Do you ever think at any time it might have been better to forgive and try to repair the marriage? I ask that because you said until the infidelity happened, you had a good marriage.

i agree honey

Bowie

Hell, I'd never do it again.

I am not equivalent to an early teenager, but to a later one. Seriously I am not thinking you are wise,sis.Perhaps your grown enough to get married,

Hey hey i'll i'm saying is do it to me one more time

thanks for sharing bowie

theres nothing wrong w/ marriage in and of itself

it shouldnt be a compromise for one or the other
and it shouldnt be, in my opinion, only for financial benefit

doesnt matter whats against the law...i didnt get that bit at all

i think sometimes maybe we are taught something-the try it anyway when we are young and it doesnt work out
we spend the rest of our lives saying thats junk

usually it was not a good fit or one or the other persons fault
and when we get older we are often better at many things
including relationships?

its like the other issues coming up lately-
weight, smoking etc-its all about a persons preferences

so what really?
doesnt make it right or wrong-just a personal goal-or not

Practice makes perfect!!

Yes I tried. She said she wanted to continue, and then I found the email address and password. It hadn't stopped between them. I was always very black and white about infidelity. When it happened, I found I was willing to live in the grey. That doesn't mean I'm gonna take it forever. I tried.

all i'm saying

never mind

Yes, I understand. If you are going to repair the damage, you both have to want to and both have to put your heart into it 100 percent.

No difference at all....takes older and wiser to come to that conclusion......good for you...

Yes.

Duh, you mean I have waited all these years for you to propose - all for nothing

Joking Gra - I totally and completely agree - marriage is for legality and in no way qualifies a love - great thread

Marriage is a tradition - simple as.............

the history of it is worth googling too for the truth of it