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Its not like Im even into toy boys cos Im not - but heck - this kid only verbalised a fantasy - it may or may not have had a semblance of reality to it - who knows and who cares - the reaction was disproportionate and evidently reactionary to the level of indoctrination of each persons particular stance - I did watch since the thread satrted and was increasingly amused throughout the day

judgmentalism rules in cs - if thats ok by you then great - it isnt by me and quite a few others......................

boy toys ................. I'm into a lot of toys involving boys young and old, as long as they are willing....

I missed all the fun at the start... I do think it's fine and his right to voice his experience or his fantasy or whatever the heck it was

Not quite sure he was ready to be ripped apart by the pack though

I agree that you can do your best to teach a son respect.. however.. every parent only knows about 5 percent of what their older teen's are really doing.

Especially once they move out.
and no matter what anyone says here..not one of us were perfect young or now.

But God bless those that strive to be as close to perfect as they can.

a bump for the "fun crowd".........

Why are we still talking about this little snot's supposed expoits?
I mean really, who gives a schit? Children do things for attention. You've all just given him exactly what he wanted.

I can't help what my son does when he isn't with me no and I don't expect him to be perfect...BUT I can help what he does in front of me and I expect him to have respect for people period as well as himself....that's the way I have raised my kids and that's the way I hope they continue....My son is not perfect and yes he is a teen...BUT I also know that he is an independent thinker and an open communicator...He just does it with respect and tact....and treats women as people not pieces of meat!!!!!!!!

nope, I think that the blonde and the brunette 40 something sluts did that...

You know hun its so funny when they talk about they dont care how many women their sons stick their Dic5. in..but i will tell you..If a Father had a daughter and their was many men sticking their dic$ in her..God help then Men..becos i know their thinking would totally change..

And for the ones who say that i only know 5% of what my son does...you couldnt be more wrong...He is nearly 18..and proud he is still a virgin..You can go and say what you want..but apparently me bringing him up with morals and values has done something..I am appalled at some of you agreeing in what this person is doing...Thumbs down to all that does....

I have a feeling at age 40, your son may fess up to a few things you never knew about.
I love how blinded parents are by their children. You see it all the time.

It would be different if the op was preying on innocents, but he had some fun with a few older women-or so he says. What exactly is the offense where people would come out and flog him? Boys will be boys. If this were true, the women just helped him along in his manhood.

I don't get the double standard with this thread and the other one last night. The very same people were comforting a MARRIED woman who was heartbroken over a MARRIED man who turned out to just be her f*ck toy or whatever, and you still cannot see the irony. I just don't get it.

Like I said before, don't care what my son does until he gets married. He's got the loyalty to family thing down pat. Most importantly, the loyalty to himself as well, so I'm sure he's not getting too stupid, but I'm also certain he is getting what a hormone driven kid needs.

The double standard really blows my mind.

Sorry princess but you have no right to say about my son..we have an open relationship and we talk about everything..why would he not tell me the truth about being a virgin..

We talk about it over and over..i dont threaten him at all....

I know my son..You or anyone else here dont..

You can say what you wish..but i know that he is..

But i do care what my son does and how he treats other women....

Its not right...and i have a say in it until he moves out...

But again i know my son is a Virgin...The teenagers taunt him about being one...

But he stands his ground..AGAIN VERY PROUD OF MY SON

AGREED..but its so funny people think they know my son... They are not here with me...and there are boys out there who know and respect their life and their body and women

I never said your son wasn't a virgin-I said you will be amazed at what he tells you, which knowing boys could be any thing under the sun. I am glad you are proud of your son, I'm sure that most of us are proud of our kids. You son is not the issue.

The issue is the double standard of this thread. Could you please explain to me how people can crucify a kid who is just about 18 or so for having a fling with some older people, yet some married woman gets so much comfort over bleating on and on about her married "boyfriend"? That's the part I don't get. I cannot in my mind, make a connection as to how or why it happened. Marriage is a commitment and within that, I cannot understand how someone can come on here, shout out his name and start waffling on and on about him, yet both be in committed relationships. Explain that to me. That is what I need to understand. Are so many people THAT unfaithful that they can relate to adultery, yet so anal that they cannot relate to a kid's sexual coming of age? Seriously, I don't get it.

each to there own but posting it on a thread to me just demonstrates immaturity , i for one am not interested in the slightest what he does.

Im totally with you on this one ........

Joanne I would just like to say...wonderful as your son probably is please dont have unrealistic expectations of him its not fair on him and you could find you may well feel let down one day and also you may be putting too much pressure on him.....my two sons are 24 and 21 and their sex life in my opinion is their business just as my sex life has nothing to do with them.....

Well that is if I had a sex life

of course he's immature, he's still a puppy. I can remember a few months back when a not much older gentleman posted his exploits-not so explicitly, but still got a bit flogged by it. I just don't get the 2 dueling threads is all, and hopefully someone can explain that to me.

Sure i can explain..i am not saying anything bad about him..just his choices...and i didnt do thumbs up on that other thread about that relationship...Go read what i said...

I dont know if he is married or not...he didnt tell me that...or knew that she was either...i told her this was not the place...

all i said was i am sorry it happen that way...I didnt kiss her A$$ and say all sweet things to her....

We all make choices..and i will give my opinion on the topic..It dont make us right/wrong..

But when someone tells me that i dont know my own son..and the things that he is doing...Then i have a problem with that....

Again No one is here in my Life...Until they see with their own eyes..then they can say what they wish too...

If only you knew Me and the people who knows...They will tell you..what i have said i know what i am talking about...

Really there are still men in their 20's That are still a Virgin..

What is wrong with that..People seem to go at someone becos they are still One...DONT GET THAT AT ALL....

how true is that statement for a bunch of us

My son told me some stuff when he was like 9 or 10- that I had no idea about Although, I was the same way with my mom. Never did tell her half the stuff I did, just the stuff I needed to confess years later

Again here you dont know what you are saying about my Son...They are no unrealistic..

Pressure dont know what you are saying about that..But Remember I am his Mother..I will to what i feel is right..and by the way it looks..I have been doing great..

His sex life and his life is my business...

He is still not an adult..he lives under my roof...

Its my business.

no, I realize you didn't kiss her as s but I had asked her on page 1 if he was separated, because I thought I remembered that, and she said that they both were..

Your son can be a virgin for as long as he wants, nothing wrong with that at all. I'm not talking about virginity, I am talking about the stuff boys do when they get together. It could make your hair stand on end. Maybe your child is the one perfect one that never did a single thing outside of the box. All I said is that he may tell you some stories you never knew about, and it will surprise you. Maybe not. You child isn't the focus of this discussion-other than the fact that too many parents think they know their kids and end up finding out otherwise.

No harm no foul It's all good here, just wondered about the married thing, not arguing about your son in the least. I'm sure he's quite the gentleman. Is he is college yet?