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Again here you dont know what you are saying about my Son...They are no unrealistic..

Pressure dont know what you are saying about that..But Remember I am his Mother..I will to what i feel is right..and by the way it looks..I have been doing great..

His sex life and his life is my business...

He is still not an adult..he lives under my roof...

Its my business.

Again here you dont know what you are saying about my Son...They are no unrealistic..

Pressure dont know what you are saying about that..But Remember I am his Mother..I will to what i feel is right..and by the way it looks..I have been doing great..

His sex life and his life is my business...

He is still not an adult..he lives under my roof...

Its my business.

no, I realize you didn't kiss her as s but I had asked her on page 1 if he was separated, because I thought I remembered that, and she said that they both were..

Your son can be a virgin for as long as he wants, nothing wrong with that at all. I'm not talking about virginity, I am talking about the stuff boys do when they get together. It could make your hair stand on end. Maybe your child is the one perfect one that never did a single thing outside of the box. All I said is that he may tell you some stories you never knew about, and it will surprise you. Maybe not. You child isn't the focus of this discussion-other than the fact that too many parents think they know their kids and end up finding out otherwise.

No harm no foul It's all good here, just wondered about the married thing, not arguing about your son in the least. I'm sure he's quite the gentleman. Is he is college yet?

Okay I accept that all but all I am saying is that I have seen mothers with high expectations of their children heap on the pressure without even realising it....and are then devestated when that child falls off the pedestal for doing something that isnt at all bad...is it bad to have sex when youre 18 I dont think so.....your son knows you would be upset if he had sex so dont you think thats putting pressure on him not to....he wouldnt want to upset you at the end of the day...and if he is a normal 18 year old boy then surely his hormones are raging...oh and my sons still live at home with me do you think that makes the 24 year olds sex life my business?....jmo

Nope didnt say he is perfect...dont like someone telling me its not my business when he is not an adult..

I understand what you are saying..i dont care what stories he tells...They are just stories...

Well i do know my child..i wont find out anything that i already know...

There are exceptions you know..Not every boy is the same...

No he is not in college..He is not graduated yet....In 12

See that is what i am saying..He is not An adult yet..and some saying its not my business...What he does...

It became about my son when someone rudly said i only know 5% of what my son does...

Oh Joanne please dont be upset...its just that we all see it differently and we all love and want the best for our children....it doesnt mean any of us are wrong....

Got it, well that wasn't me.. Is he going to go to college, does he know yet? What does he want to be?

Okay....he sounds a very smart young man for his age

Hey! I think we highjacked this thread!!! Let's put our best recipes in here and household tips, maybe even traveling tips or whatever

Yes he wants to be a writer....he has a good imagination for that...I will support him in anything he wants to do..

My bad...recipes dont want to kill anyone..

Hi joanne i do think the values we teach our children play a huge part

in how they grow up and there beliefs as to what is right or wrong for them, my daughter and i had an

open relationship in which she felt able to discuss anything with me, we talk now and she has here own

daughter and says she now understands why i said and did the things i did. I would agree we don"t

always know what our kids get up to but if we have always communicated openly i think we have a

pretty good idea

That's what my son is in college for now. I did point out he will be a starving artist That's what he wants though. I'd like to hope that he would get a job at a magazine or newspaper to make money to live on while he writes his stories. He doesn't want to stay in this country, so maybe he will be successful abroad.

you are so silly...

My two lads are good boys too...with a huge amount of respect for me and their sister and women in general...and that makes me proud....my youngest is currently doing up an old classic car too....