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Zellarrone1: I have only had the time to skim through the other posts. I have to agree with the majority of in this thread that he seems very controlling and trouble with a capital "T"...especially in the long term.

Sorry, I'm not familiar with the phrase "down for his girl" but if it means he went to jail for being violent to her or anything along those lines, then that's another valid reason for you to get rid of him before you become too deeply emotionally involved

tabyjean: OK...I met this guy about 3 months ago that lives in my town from another on line dating site. I really like him but not sure what to do or what to think. I'm not going to tell his hole life story but here is why I'm confused.

We met & hit it off really well. He told me he was really interested in me & was in this for the long hall but we weren't together officially if you know what I mean. Anyways, he just got out of prison & is trying to get his life on the right track... He all the sudden vanishes for like 2 weeks than texts me asking if i could forgive someone who just vanished? I said yes cause I'm one who gives chances but asked why he did that. He told me that the person he was living with was given a 3 day notice that he couldn't be there or they would loose their apt. Now he's living in a men's christian home & working on getting things right in his life. He mad plans to come over 1day after helping his pregnant sister move...he text saying he was done & was going to call me when he got back to his mothers & never did! 2 days later he text saying he was sorry his sister worked his but off & it was getting late & he didn't know how to tell me without me getting mad & how much he wanted me. He asked me if I've been with anyone else & I said no...He said he likes when a girl is faithful & he's down for his girl & asked if I would do that for him? Today will be 3 days & I haven't heard from him.

I understand he's been through a lot & has a lot going on but I'm wondering if this is a game he's playing or should I just be patient? Tell me what you think please...

tabyjean: OK...I met this guy about 3 months ago that lives in my town from another on line dating site. I really like him but not sure what to do or what to think. I'm not going to tell his hole life story but here is why I'm confused.

We met & hit it off really well. He told me he was really interested in me & was in this for the long hall but we weren't together officially if you know what I mean. Anyways, he just got out of prison & is trying to get his life on the right track... He all the sudden vanishes for like 2 weeks than texts me asking if i could forgive someone who just vanished? I said yes cause I'm one who gives chances but asked why he did that. He told me that the person he was living with was given a 3 day notice that he couldn't be there or they would loose their apt. Now he's living in a men's christian home & working on getting things right in his life. He mad plans to come over 1day after helping his pregnant sister move...he text saying he was done & was going to call me when he got back to his mothers & never did! 2 days later he text saying he was sorry his sister worked his but off & it was getting late & he didn't know how to tell me without me getting mad & how much he wanted me. He asked me if I've been with anyone else & I said no...He said he likes when a girl is faithful & he's down for his girl & asked if I would do that for him? Today will be 3 days & I haven't heard from him.

I understand he's been through a lot & has a lot going on but I'm wondering if this is a game he's playing or should I just be patient? Tell me what you think please...

tabyjean: I understand he's been through a lot & has a lot going on but I'm wondering if this is a game he's playing or should I just be patient? Tell me what you think please...

tabyjean: OK...I met this guy about 3 months ago that lives in my town from another on line dating site. I really like him but not sure what to do or what to think. I'm not going to tell his hole life story but here is why I'm confused.

We met & hit it off really well. He told me he was really interested in me & was in this for the long hall but we weren't together officially if you know what I mean. Anyways, he just got out of prison & is trying to get his life on the right track... He all the sudden vanishes for like 2 weeks than texts me asking if i could forgive someone who just vanished? I said yes cause I'm one who gives chances but asked why he did that. He told me that the person he was living with was given a 3 day notice that he couldn't be there or they would loose their apt. Now he's living in a men's christian home & working on getting things right in his life. He mad plans to come over 1day after helping his pregnant sister move...he text saying he was done & was going to call me when he got back to his mothers & never did! 2 days later he text saying he was sorry his sister worked his but off & it was getting late & he didn't know how to tell me without me getting mad & how much he wanted me. He asked me if I've been with anyone else & I said no...He said he likes when a girl is faithful & he's down for his girl & asked if I would do that for him? Today will be 3 days & I haven't heard from him.

I understand he's been through a lot & has a lot going on but I'm wondering if this is a game he's playing or should I just be patient? Tell me what you think please...

tabyjean: OK...I met this guy about 3 months ago that lives in my town from another on line dating site. I really like him but not sure what to do or what to think. I'm not going to tell his hole life story but here is why I'm confused.

We met & hit it off really well. He told me he was really interested in me & was in this for the long hall but we weren't together officially if you know what I mean. Anyways, he just got out of prison & is trying to get his life on the right track... He all the sudden vanishes for like 2 weeks than texts me asking if i could forgive someone who just vanished? I said yes cause I'm one who gives chances but asked why he did that. He told me that the person he was living with was given a 3 day notice that he couldn't be there or they would loose their apt. Now he's living in a men's christian home & working on getting things right in his life. He mad plans to come over 1day after helping his pregnant sister move...he text saying he was done & was going to call me when he got back to his mothers & never did! 2 days later he text saying he was sorry his sister worked his but off & it was getting late & he didn't know how to tell me without me getting mad & how much he wanted me. He asked me if I've been with anyone else & I said no...He said he likes when a girl is faithful & he's down for his girl & asked if I would do that for him? Today will be 3 days & I haven't heard from him.

I understand he's been through a lot & has a lot going on but I'm wondering if this is a game he's playing or should I just be patient? Tell me what you think please...

Ambrose2007: He's either involved with another woman or some criminal activity. It's really that simple.