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Oh hey!.. so did Bill Clinton..

for a while at least.

That's what I did..

He didn't loose crap, he tossed it away. His lose, why are you angry? What is he doing? Is he running around happy and getting what he wants?

Maybe you should..

No I am not angry , I let that go many years ago. Nope he married a heroin addict and I doubt he is too happy, but he stayed with her for over 12 yrs now. Ha!!

Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake.

Great line in a book I read..

I agree , I really believe that!

See, we do have something in common..

And so the cycle begins over and over again and the neon sign on your forehead flashes "Cheat on Me"

For me, forgiving someone of their actions is different than holding them accountable. What I see in others that I use to see in myself is that I didn't know the difference. While I can and have forgiven the action I still hold that person accountable by stopping the action from happening with that person again. What I mean by this is yes, I dearly love a man that was never faithful to me, it hurt a great deal, I am saddened by his actions, he is not a horrible person, I wish him the best and I am still friends with him. How did I stop the action from happening again? I am no longer in a romantic relationship, even though I am in love with him. It can never be. I deserve a man that will be faithful, honest, and will create open communication. I will always know the signs of cheating and that still doesn't mean "I can't trust" again. For me it's my personal power inside that I know if I see the signs I will leave the relationship period. I have the trust within myself that I will take care of me. I have my 100% responsibility in the relationship and the other person has their 100% responsibility.

For me, the "I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...." is playing the victim and asking for people to be a part of a pity party. I choose not to be a victim and I chose to move on with my life. If that includes a man in the future I am open to it. If not then I can take care of myself. When I say the word "I" it comes from personal power not victimization.

One strike and yer out!!!!

have to agree..

seen the forgive and forget theory fall apart too many times....

I've been lucky...I haven't been in a relationship long enough to have someone cheat on me....

And I would forgive him again if he would run for the President of the United states..

Count yourself lucky!!

I only say this cause after you have been with someone for like total of a 11 yrs. and when they cheat on you the pain is much deeper.

My short answer....It is possible, but it is very difficult.

I guess I may never find that out. It is terrible you went through that...I am sorry...

There is no bloody way I would forgive.

His dick he chose where to put it. There's the door cya later. *slam*

I choose to rub mine across your nipples a little bit....

Yes you will , once you get past your pain now, and find the really right one, who will be there for you dispite problems!! If I fall inlove nothing else matters. Heck I could go senile a few years later, I would still want him to care and love me.