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When You Have been cheated on, is it truly possible to forgive?




pixiestyx
everywhere, South Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:37 PM CST
forgiving is easy... its the forgetting part that is the problem
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mylifewithu
Springfield, Missouri USA
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:39 PM CST
pixiestyx wrote:
forgiving is easy... its the forgetting part that is the problem
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:40 PM CST
diogenes wrote:
I choose to rub mine across your nipples a little bit....
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:41 PM CST
pixiestyx wrote:
forgiving is easy... its the forgetting part that is the problem


Not for me I couldnt forgive or forget. If my parnter walked the sausage anywhere but home. It would be cut and dry for me.

There is no way I would want him touching me, looking at me, talking to me.
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diogenes
Longview, Texas USA
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:42 PM CST
I wanted to make a sexual joke and end it with *slam*

but.....dunno
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 8:43 PM CST
diogenes wrote:
I wanted to make a sexual joke and end it with *slam*

but.....
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:26 AM CST
i was able to forgive, but forget and give completely trust again no i couldn't
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:26 AM CST
complete D'oh!
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:31 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Not for me I couldnt forgive or forget. If my parnter walked the sausage anywhere but home. It would be cut and dry for me.

There is no way I would want him touching me, looking at me, talking to me.


I wonder how it would feel to hang on to such resentment for so long.confused

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:33 AM CST
Who are we to judge another??confused

How many sit around the forums and say they do not judge others..devil



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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:37 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Who are we to judge another??

How many sit around the forums and say they do not judge others..


Im not judging I'm stating my feelings.wine
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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:47 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Im not judging I'm stating my feelings.


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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 1:49 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
I wonder how it would feel to hang on to such resentment for so long.


I just know I wouldn't put up with that crap.


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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 2:08 AM CST
OUTRAGEOUS wrote:
I was told that I could forgive, but I didn't necessarily have to forget. Then it turns into a vicious circle, if I can't forget, I won't be able to let it go... it will always lurk there...

I haven't forgotten, and it still hurts a little, and leaves me short of breath... I can't forget, so I will always know the signs of cheating... I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...

Sounds familiar? Tell us about it.



Hopefully I'll never have to answer this question. I do think though, at some point, one has to forgive and move on ............. because in forgiving you are letting go of the hurt that you have been holding onto as a result of this other person's actions. Do you forget - I don't think that's possible - but to let go of the pain - yes, I believe that's possible and necessary for healing to occur.
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 2:10 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Im not judging I'm stating my feelings.


"Feelings", are not right or wrong. They just are..hug
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 2:13 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
I just know I wouldn't put up with that crap.


Realize one thing. It would have nothing to do with you, not your fault..wink

But some sure can do a good job of finding fault..sigh I know from personal experience..
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 2:19 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Realize one thing. It would have nothing to do with you, not your fault..

But some sure can do a good job of finding fault.. I know from personal experience..



I'm only responsible for my actions.......nobody elses.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 3:06 AM CST
pixiestyx wrote:
forgiving is easy... its the forgetting part that is the problem


Ooo how truuuuue
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 3:06 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Not for me I couldnt forgive or forget. If my parnter walked the sausage anywhere but home. It would be cut and dry for me.

There is no way I would want him touching me, looking at me, talking to me.



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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 7, 2008, 8:01 AM CST
OUTRAGEOUS wrote:
I was told that I could forgive, but I didn't necessarily have to forget. Then it turns into a vicious circle, if I can't forget, I won't be able to let it go... it will always lurk there...

I haven't forgotten, and it still hurts a little, and leaves me short of breath... I can't forget, so I will always know the signs of cheating... I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...

Sounds familiar? Tell us about it.


a cheater always a cheater

i can forgive her, but i will move away from her too

i dont need cheaters in my life
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