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And just who do you think you're hurting by that? Just something to think about. Carry on.

Guess I sort of second that opinion. Without trust what could you ever possibly have together again.

I've never been treated on but if I ever was yes I would forgive but I wouldn't forget.

Well let's say I tried to forgive but forget never..

i know iv thought about that ,but there's a lot to it ,i forgave him a long time ago but just cant forgive myself or turning on the blinders il learn in time tho

that should have been "for" turning on the blinders

Opps I meant cheated.

...I forgave for 8 years...did he change? No ...so is time to move on... I hate cheaters!!!...and yes I did not forget yet still hurting.

I don't understand why you even bother, "are you not lucky you got out of it"?

I met a couple of slimers in my life time and let me tell ya, I don't listen to what they have to say,

Two of then I threw out of the house in a fast hurry,

usually your innerself tells you these things before the sh&t piles up to the hilt.

I had endless phone calls and begging from them but I kept on rolling changed phone numbers email addresses etc....

It is to scary to runaround and screw everything out there, why would I want to worry about getting something I can't wipe off..

fORGIVENESS doesn't mean to like the other person that wronged you or to understand why that person wronged you.

Forgiveness means I RELEASE you and I release myself from whatever hurt has been caused.

forgive
forget
go on with your life
stop crying tears of yesterday
for tomorrow is a new beginning
a new chance to find true love

You know i always just go with the flow with a new relationship..The new gal i am dating, (if i had one) i give complete trust no matter what.

She isn't the ex that cheated so i can't hold it against her...at all.

stew

that's exactly the right approach, my man!!
you will find her. its a matter of when

Thanks bro, you still findin yours??

Don't know, Stew.....I am still recovering....if it happens, fine. If not, life is still good.

Yeah my attitude tooo....just ain't lookin if she finds me the we will work things out...

Hell your a fantastic guy, ladies should crave you..

thanks you're a pal

Forgive yes... forgeting it is not possible because you can not erase memories! But you can look past it! I have been cheated on and I ran across this right as I got off the phone with my ex who is my best friend who cheated on me! Forgiveness is why we are friends! He hurt himself the girl he was with and me! I forgive them both they are both great friends! What is meant to be will be and what is not will not be! I obvisiously wasn't met to be with him! Is he a great guy? Yes! He is the most amazing person I have met! Its about being mature and looking past the hurt if you truly care about a person!

On the other hand I never fought with this guy! I fought beside him as his partner but never with or against him! I agree that there is relationships that can not be friendships afterwards because I have one of those too! Idk if he cheated there is that possiblity! Because all he did was lie! Do i forgive him yes! Do I want to be friends with him? I tried and he continued to be the angry, over protective, always right there and if I wasn't he was mad, controling man! The day we broke up I was fighting w/ him over him not seeing all the pictures on my phone. My mom heard and told him that if i wanted to date a kindergarten I could go back to elementary and find one that acted better! lol gotta love her!

I wouldn't forgive, in my eyes there is NO excuse for cheating FULL STOP.