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optimist

I am an eternal optimist.

There is no either/or, no black and white: there are gray areas....

I'd like to think I try my hardest to be optomistical.

Optimistic without a doubt

Yes there is.....

luck is random, it exists and is there for one an all to enjoy.

However, if one is a pessimist, and concentrates only on the darker issues of his journey, he does not see good things pass him by...

on the other hand, an optimist, is always on the lookout, and as soon as something good happens his way, he grabs the moment.

That is the difference.

almost -
i am a optimistic pessimist

I look at the worst case first and trust things can only get better

optimist is the only way to be...pessimists are depressed people....jmho

Optimist - Most Definitely!

Sure enough,looking at the bright side of life.

Can I say I am a bit of both?..

Realistic.....but people mistake it sometimes for being negative.

Realistic optimist

I'm a little bit of both...

I can be a little pessimist when it comes to dating (I've had so many dates in 4 years that I don't trust anything or anyone nowadays). It takes me a while to relax (that's why I like bars or restuarants on a first date...shoooo....RELAX).

But I get optimistic when it's going good and he wants to see me again (and we are still seeing each other after 2 months).

I'm a realist person.....usually swing between optimism and pessimism but things are's always that simple as pure joy or pure sorrow....

I hope for the best and crave it.Sadly we dont always get what we want out of life so i would put myself as a realist rather than in the two categories.

What i truly believe in is never underestimate human kinds efforts to steer towards stupidity and then try to blame it on someone else when the wheels fall off the apple cart.

People have to wake up and take responsibility for their actions.

Here's some optimistic beer to cheer on some of the people that require some dutch courage to do whats right as the conscience hust have gone for a walk

Always the optimist. Always expect the best of people and deal with the results of that.

case in point:
Chica (though having a bad hair day) ---> thinks, "Ah, new day...let's check out c.s. ...hey, maybe someone sent moi a flower"....ever the optimist, aye?

:::types in name & password...finger is a hair's breath from clicking 'enter' when, bam! ...
some uninvited voice in my head whispers, "Naw, there won't be a flor today missy"...pessimism (sp?) hurdles itself right in...every single stinkin' time.

go figure

Flowers missy?